Judy...I can't imagine how hard this last year must have been for you since your Mother passed. Its such a sad bond we all share. My Mother passed on Sept 28th, 2010 and I'm still counting the days since she left us and can't really believe she has been gone this long already. I can't imagine a year without Mom but I know that anniversary will be here before I know it. Some of the things you've said are exactly how I feel! I find some days are better than others now but it still seems surreal to me that she is gone forever. I still want to call her everyday or drive by her little place and visit and boy do I miss the times we shared. I was with her every single day the last 18 months of her life and I am so grateful for that time now. She spent 4 months in and out of the hospitals/nursing homes before passing and I have many regrets from those days but in hindsight I guess the outcome would not have changed due to her health problems. Reading everyone's comments continues to bring me comfort knowing I'm not alone with my feelings of missing her but.... Lord I miss her so so much!!!! I believe as you do that my Mother is also having a grand ole time up there with family! Thank you for your comments and may you find comfort in your memories of your Mother too.
Hard to believe, the one year anniversary of Mom's death is this Sunday. Where has the year gone? It's been a rough year, never thought it would be hard. It was. Thank God friends and family were around 1000% during this year. I really would like to thank my nephew. He was a Godsend. Helping with cleaning out her home was hell. I thank God every day that he was there to help.
I miss you so much Mom, but I know you're having the time of your life up there with the rest of the family!
I know exactly how you feel Judy. My mom passed on April 21,2009. She was/is my bestfriend,rock as well. It still feels sureal. I am 46 and feel like a baby wanting their mommy. Just knowing she is with me,and she has made it clear on many occassions to let me know...Helps. Such a cliche,however,rings true. Also, I don't know if you watch much TV. On sunday night @10;00pm NY time, there is a show on the biography channel.."beyond and Back. That show gave/gives me so much comfort. God bless and hang in there..
Jenny.....I feel just like you. Mom was my bestfriend and my rock and the older I got the closer we were! It still feels surreal to me too and I miss her so so much. I just wanted to tell you I have recently found this show you speak of... "Beyond and Back." I am completely hooked on it and have taped every show that has been on. The very first one I found while flipping channels and while trying to watch it through my tears I can't tell you how much comfort it gave me. I love this show and you are right... it brings much comfort and gives me hope. I'm sorry we share the loss of our Mom's. We will see them someday though! Thanks for posting about the show. Take care
Jenny said:I know exactly how you feel Judy. My mom passed on April 21,2009. She was/is my bestfriend,rock as well. It still feels sureal. I am 46 and feel like a baby wanting their mommy. Just knowing she is with me,and she has made it clear on many occassions to let me know...Helps. Such a cliche,however,rings true. Also, I don't know if you watch much TV. On sunday night @10;00pm NY time, there is a show on the biography channel.."beyond and Back. That show gave/gives me so much comfort. God bless and hang in there..
Oh,TY for saying that..I felt a little foolish with that advice..But so many people having the same experiences..and noone wanted to come back..That speaks volumes to me.. I picture my mom and dad..watching me sobbing....And I actual laugh a little..Can't even imagine such a place..God bless..and I'll think of you on Sunday evenings.!=)..
Honey I feel the same way I lost my mom Feb 5th and I think I was in shock til now since the funeral was Sat I am so depressed I too keep thinkingI need to call mom or I womnder how she is today I was told losing your mom the pain never goes away and I feel lost too I am really messed up in my head!
I am sorry for your loss.. It may get a little easir with time.. For some it is easier than for others.. I still miss both of my parents who died one year apart .. Dad in 2008 and Mom in 2009.. I miss them so much still..
I know what you mean when you say your rock, no more shopping or phone calls.. It is so hard to know they are permanently gone and can never see them again.. I think it is hardest on me because I am single with no one else in my life to lean on. My sisters and daughter have moved on much more easily than me.. I am better in some ways..
I pray that time will heal your pain.. Take care! Sue