I can't eat, sleep, function or take pleasure in anything since the death of my best friend, my Dad, on 3/23/10. I am lost. I want to go with him. I don't want to be without him. I don't know how to be without him. My life feels over. Please help me!


Views: 20

Replies to This Discussion

I'm so sorry for the loss of your dad. I understand the complete devastation you feel. I lost my dad 02/22/2010. I've said the same thing as you everyday since he left. Everything around us looks familiar, but nothing is the same, how do we continue when everything we've known is different. There is nothing anyone can say to bring you comfort. You need to allow yourself to grieve. Get mad, yell, question, beg, plead, and cry. Try everything to help you grieve (not get over it, because that won't happen). Listen to music, blog on this website, write a journal, read books on loss. I've tried everything, and although nothing has given me what I want, which is my daddy back, all together these things have helped me get my emotions out, and even understand my irrational thinking. I don't want to be without my dad either, but nobody ever gives us a choice. You are not alone. I will be here, and I know the pain, I just don't know how to get rid of it.


Latest Conversations

Alex Well is now a member of LegacyConnect
Profile IconDolores Beauchamp , Mirko and Ruth Henderson joined LegacyConnect
Sep 26
dream moon commented on dream moon's group i ❤❤❤ mom
Sep 25
Melanie Bowen is now a member of LegacyConnect
Sep 13

Community Guidelines

Please be respectful of others. For more information, read our Community Guidelines.

Follow Legacy

© 2022   Created by Legacy.com.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service