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My mom passed almost 3 years ago. I've been almost paralyzed with the grief I still feel. I miss her so much it almost physically hurts.
I don't know where to turn. I also feel as though I'm in a very dark place with no hope. It is an awful feeling.
I know people say it gets easier with time. Well, in my case, that just isn't so. I feel like a big part of me died that day with her. I almost wish I had. Coping with the loss is crippling for me.
Hey Jimmy
It might get easier. I lost my dad on 3/25/09 and it is still rough. All i can say is that you have your good days where you can accept it and then you have your bad days. Sometimes i think when is my dad coming back. Think of the good times, the laughter, that will help.
My mom passed almost 3 years ago. I've been almost paralyzed with the grief I still feel. I miss her so much it almost physically hurts.
I don't know where to turn. I also feel as though I'm in a very dark place with no hope. It is an awful feeling.
I know people say it gets easier with time. Well, in my case, that just isn't so. I feel like a big part of me died that day with her. I almost wish I had. Coping with the loss is crippling for me.
Jimmy, WOW I love your special memories in honor of your Mom. I can feel the pain in your note...but loosing your mom, is so tough. You do not give much information about your family, etc...friends, but I hope you are not trying to do this process all by yourself. I tried that for a short time, and fell quickly on my face. Your mom will be in your spirit all the days of your life. No the love of a mom is like non other, but please do not limit your life to never love again. With the relationship you two had, I know that is not what she would want for you. I know how hard it is to reach out to others when we are hurting, but I want you to know, you bless others by letting them know how to help you during this difficult time of your life. It is not that people are not there for you, but I have lived life long enough to know, some people are afraid they might offend you, or that you present a strong face and admit all is well, when you are dying inside. Take baby steps, and I pray you will find someone to help you go through the loss that has turned your life upside down.
The saying heals all pains, is acceptable, but I think it just lessens the intensity. I know that I know, my anger and frustration since December 2009, most people rather take a beating, then watch what I am going through. I pray, I write, I talk, and yet I am not nearly as healthy mentally as I need to be. Take care, and I hope you stay with Legacy, there are many people ready to reach out, or just listen to your pain! Warmly, Belinda Rhodes
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