I lost my mom on December 30, 2010. It doesn't even seem real. Some mornings I wake up and will go into my mom's room to wake her up for coffee and she just isn't there. How do you cope with this?

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well first off im sorry about your mom... i lost mine jan 3 2010 and it still seems unreal... i find it hard to walk in moms house where she passed but in your case seems like you live there.... all i can say is time will lighten this off your chest... i dont believe right now that you will ever be comfortable with it but i do know that at the beginning i was so mad... i hated everyone.... but now i have some joy in my heart and have found a sense of peace that she is no longer with me.... now my mother died a very sick woman.. she had stage 4 colon and liver cancer and we were praying for god to come... she was so ungodly sick.. and yellow.. she was kind of scary to the naked eye.... but whats your story.. how did you lose your mother....? im tricia i am 33 my mother was my first loss and then 19 days before her year of coming up on being deceased her first niece.. my favorite cousin at 22 overdosed on narcotics :-( last year was horrible..... take care and keep in touch.

 

<3 tricia

well first off im sorry about your mom... i lost mine jan 3 2010 and it still seems unreal... i find it hard to walk in moms house where she passed but in your case seems like you live there.... all i can say is time will lighten this off your chest... i dont believe right now that you will ever be comfortable with it but i do know that at the beginning i was so mad... i hated everyone.... but now i have some joy in my heart and have found a sense of peace that she is no longer with me.... now my mother died a very sick woman.. she had stage 4 colon and liver cancer and we were praying for god to come... she was so ungodly sick.. and yellow.. she was kind of scary to the naked eye.... but whats your story.. how did you lose your mother....? im tricia i am 33 my mother was my first loss and then 19 days before her year of coming up on being deceased her first niece.. my favorite cousin at 22 overdosed on narcotics :-( last year was horrible..... take care and keep in touch.

 

<3 tricia


My mom had not been very sick. She had bronchitis, but the day they were going to send her home from the hospital, she slipped into a coma and never woke up. I lost my dad  in June 2008, however he had been sick for some time and although I miss him greatly, it was a blessing when he did pass.

 


Tricia said:

well first off im sorry about your mom... i lost mine jan 3 2010 and it still seems unreal... i find it hard to walk in moms house where she passed but in your case seems like you live there.... all i can say is time will lighten this off your chest... i dont believe right now that you will ever be comfortable with it but i do know that at the beginning i was so mad... i hated everyone.... but now i have some joy in my heart and have found a sense of peace that she is no longer with me.... now my mother died a very sick woman.. she had stage 4 colon and liver cancer and we were praying for god to come... she was so ungodly sick.. and yellow.. she was kind of scary to the naked eye.... but whats your story.. how did you lose your mother....? im tricia i am 33 my mother was my first loss and then 19 days before her year of coming up on being deceased her first niece.. my favorite cousin at 22 overdosed on narcotics :-( last year was horrible..... take care and keep in touch.

 

<3 tricia


My mom had not been very sick. She had bronchitis, but the day they were going to send her home from the hospital, she slipped into a coma and never woke up. I lost my dad  in June 2008, however he had been sick for some time and although I miss him greatly, it was a blessing when he did pass.

 


Tricia said:

well first off im sorry about your mom... i lost mine jan 3 2010 and it still seems unreal... i find it hard to walk in moms house where she passed but in your case seems like you live there.... all i can say is time will lighten this off your chest... i dont believe right now that you will ever be comfortable with it but i do know that at the beginning i was so mad... i hated everyone.... but now i have some joy in my heart and have found a sense of peace that she is no longer with me.... now my mother died a very sick woman.. she had stage 4 colon and liver cancer and we were praying for god to come... she was so ungodly sick.. and yellow.. she was kind of scary to the naked eye.... but whats your story.. how did you lose your mother....? im tricia i am 33 my mother was my first loss and then 19 days before her year of coming up on being deceased her first niece.. my favorite cousin at 22 overdosed on narcotics :-( last year was horrible..... take care and keep in touch.

 

<3 tricia

Today, has been exactly a month, It doesn't seem real. I drive down the street by moms/our home & I have to face the fact that she's no longer there. But she has to be there, she's always there. Where else would she be? It's not Friday, she's not shopping at Safeway. But where is she... Billie, I wish I knew words to ease your mind/heart. But I do not, I can speak all day long of the grief recovery associated with losing a spouse. But not a mom, how do we cope with this?
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