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Comment by Diamond on December 17, 2018 at 2:43pm
Hi Glaretha, I agree with your statement and it is a reality. There is no final closure with death. We were not created to grow old and just die. The purpose was for us to live a life free of pain and suffering. Death goes against the original purpose for mankind. That is why it is so hard to accept:; it goes against the original purpose for mankind. Genesis 1:28.
Comment by Claretha Rice on December 1, 2018 at 1:00am

I lost my mom January 2011 and my dad 2012. My heart is aching now just like it happened yesterday. Sometimes, I am okay and like a whirlwind, my thoughts go to them, especially on holidays. It gets better, but, you never get over the loss.

Comment by Diamond on November 30, 2018 at 7:15pm
How I miss my parents and it is 2018 and the freshness of the pain is still here. I trust and believe in the promise given at Revelation 21:3,4
Comment by Sara McNamara on November 26, 2018 at 7:07pm

Lost my dad just 1 month ago.  Having a difficult time dealing with it.

Comment by Diamond on March 22, 2018 at 1:19pm

This day - I am missing my parents so much!!   There is a hole in my heart yearning to just hear their voice.  How I yearn for the day when I will be able to see them again. 

Comment by Melinda CANDACE Guinn on December 4, 2017 at 7:33pm

I'm so sorry Diamond. When I was about 12, I'd get angry at my Grandma and she'd tell me, "You'll be sorry when I'm gone". How true those words were, as my Mom and dad were divorced and my Grandma Billie was my Mother figure since I was 6 or 7. I thought she'd be here until I was about 30 but she left on new Years Day of '75, when I was only 17!  I know she's with me by the numbers on my digital clock. I never noticed until about 10 yrs ago. She's been gone over 40 yrs.  The numbers vary, sometimes in order (1234,4321.  555) It's like, "look at the clock" in my head and I know it's Grandma Billie!! It warms me. Grandma is love x 2!. 

Comment by Diamond on November 29, 2017 at 8:21pm

Melinda, I know it is so hard ....I know no words can relieve the pain of not having our loved ones with us.  I spend moments sometimes just looking out and wondering how my life would be if my parents were still here.....I will kiss them a little longer and hold their hands a little tighter...never wanting them to go...i miss that kiss on the cheek my Mom would always give me and that big smile my Dad will throw my way.....how I miss them - so much!!

Comment by Melinda CANDACE Guinn on November 29, 2017 at 7:40pm

My mom's sister's name is Maedell My Mom is Jerri. They're together with my Grandma Thomas and my Mom's brothers, my Uncles, Jimmy and Charles. My daughter and brother, sadly are with them; they were too young to die

Comment by Diamond on November 29, 2017 at 7:09pm

When I see those with their parents today - I do not hesitate to let them know to love them now - hold onto them.  I miss my parents every day and I mean every day.  Just knowing they were there were so comforting to me.  Now that they are gone - sometimes, I feel alone sometimes - or not belonging to anyone.  No one counts like our parents.  We can get all of the love in the world but the love of our parents - we long for and miss so dearly. 

Comment by Diamond on November 29, 2017 at 5:50pm

When I see those with their parents today - I do not hesitate to let them know to love them now - hold onto them.  I miss my parents every day and I mean every day.  Just knowing they were there were so comforting to me.  Now that they are gone - sometimes, I feel alone sometimes - or not belonging to anyone.  No one counts like our parents.  We can get all of the love in the world but the love of our parents - we long for and miss so dearly. 

 

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