Give it time. I lost my only child, my daughter Candace on April 9, 2010 at just turned 30 yrs old. I then lost my little brother Doug on September 22, 2014, he was 54, in less than two months he would be 55. I don't expect to EVER be completer again. It really knocked me for a loop and I don't feel sane. I'm not crazy, I would never harm anyone, but the depression is all encompassing.. We have an older brother and sister. We stay in contact by mail and phone because I live in a different state. They all lived in the same state.They weren't as close to Doug as I was because they're older, although my sister is close to Doug. I can't seem to put things in past tense.
This is Doug on his wedding day 12/0.8/90. They have a daughter who's going to college to be a Doctor.
Candace I am sorry for your loss also. Death is so unnatural we yearn to see our loved ones again. Death is truly an enemy. My prayers go out for you. I too have lost so many it sometimes feels crazy.....But with the strength that God gives i am able to hold on. Wishing you peace. And that's a beautiful picture of your brother.
Thank you, he's a good man.His daughter is going to school to become a doctor. My brother was a Respritory Therapist and his wife is a nurse. My name is Melinda, Candace is my daughter who left us 4/09/10. Then my friend of 40 yrs passed from a heart-attack. I'm overwhelmed by these deaths of people I LOVE so very much!! Sorry you're here Margaret.
Elyse I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my oldest brother on Feb7th 2014 and it seems like yesterday
I have experienced many loses in my life and it seems like you never get over it you just learn to cope. Time does make it easier. One of the things that has helped me is studying the scriptures.
The promises in God's word that give hope for the dead is very comforting. I have posted many different things on my page that has helped many to find comfort in God's word. My prayers go out for you.
I hope your doing well at this time. I haven't been on here in a bit so my response is late. I'm happy you find comfort in my posts. I understand what you mean about thoughts running wild. Death is so unnatural not apart of God's original plan for mankind, that's why it hurts so much. Continue to learn take in knowledge and continue to pray to God for the answers.
Hope you have a very productive and promising day!
When I think about both of my siblings - I kind of turn my head trying not to physically feel the pain associated with the lost. I do miss them I do replay the good times and all of the memories but it hurt as it is not natural for any of us to die that is why the pain is so profound. However, we have a promise given to us in the Bible and I cherish that promise; knowing that our Heavenly Father would not lie and will give us the day when we will be able to hug and love our lost loved ones again. Revelation 21:3,4.
That's amazing Diamond. I turned to that chapter and those verses in my Bible and I have them BOTH hi-lighted with a yellow marker! I especially like verse 4!!! I miss my loved ones so VERY much! I've always believed in God since I was a child but when I lost my daughter, it was a whole new ballgame! I HAVE to be good and honor my fellow human beings like God says, to insure I'll see Candace, Doug-lil bro, Grandma Billie and everyone!!
That is a promise given to us Melinda and I trust it. I know as imperfect human being we do not understand everything in life and sometimes don't understand fully the many challenges of living and coping with the complex issues in life; however, I turn to the Bible where I receive all of my comforts; knowing that we are all children of God and that for those that are obedient he will pave a way for them to live under condition unimaginable at this time. A time free of distress and the problems of today. (Psalms 37:9,10) Keep your belief in the promise and search out the scripture for life biggest questions. Trust in our Heavenly Father for comfort now and in the future.