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I lost my younger brother 4 weeks ago

Started by Jamie Ann. Last reply by Ewa Toole Feb 5, 2020. 36 Replies

5 yr Anniversary

Started by elyse. Last reply by Melinda CANDACE Guinn Jun 10, 2019. 1 Reply

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Comment by Melinda CANDACE Guinn on December 22, 2018 at 9:05pm

I know elyse, the world should've stopped spinning when my brother Doug left!Holidays only increase the pain! Diamond, I know the feeling! One day the pain isn't as deep and I think I've got a handle on it then a couple days later I can't bring myself to talk to his wife or daughter! Doug's wife is harder, we both cry Try and have a blessed Christmas because they're waiting for us and time moves very quickly in their dimension, so for them it'll be like not very much time has passed.Dear Lord. Please comfort us all, especially during your season. On Jesus' name, Amen.

Comment by Diamond on December 22, 2018 at 6:10pm
Revelation 21:3,4 is a beautiful promise!!!!!
Comment by Diamond on December 17, 2018 at 1:50pm
Loosing a loved one is an emotional tradegy. We seem never to get a grip on the reality of the situatuon. One day we feel we have accepted the loss and then like an emotional roller coaster our feelings just get all tangled into a web of tears and regrets. Regrets we create for not having more time with them, regrets for wanting more from ourselves to give to them. We cry for them, we long to hear their voices again. How we wish we can turn back the hands of time.
Comment by elyse on December 16, 2018 at 1:48am

I guess I'm just oversensitive but when I hear of others speaking about their siblings (whom are living) I sometimes feel jealous,saddened,resentful.I feel so alone.How I MISS my brother,no one knows the longing.I guess you guys here know and can feel the pain like I do.For the other people,their world goes on.

Comment by Mark Renaud on September 12, 2018 at 10:40am

It has been a year now since I lost my only younger sibling on August 24, 2017. He was my best friend, my rock, someone I could confine in as the bond brothers share, do. Unfortunately, we missed the signs and he hid them well so our world was shattered when the phone call came. I have learned this past year that this kind of death no one really wants to talk about or knows how to talk about. We need to make mental illness a higher priority in this country before more lives are lost.

Comment by Louise Hayes on June 21, 2018 at 3:55pm

I lost my only baby sister in 2000 - she was murdered and left behind her 12 year old daughter.  Her live in boyfriend was her killer and received life without parole - he died a few years later in prison.  Her daughter grew into a beautiful woman, married with three beautiful children.  Every time I look at her I see my sister and have slipped up and called her by my sister's name.  I have no one else besides a few nieces and great nephews/nieces - cousins are all in the south and they don't have contact with me.  So basically my husband has family on east side but we don't see them to often - but do keep in touch. 

Comment by Melinda CANDACE Guinn on January 31, 2018 at 6:41pm

Diamond, Amiss the sorrow, we WILL be reunited, so it is NOT forever. Just in this lifetime. Our souls moves on and we WILL be reunited! It was hard for me to wrap my head around it, but my daughter Candace and a friend, Ward; their Spirits came to me!!! I hurt for her daughter's and their Dad. Me too.

Comment by Diamond on January 26, 2018 at 8:31pm

Losing a sibling is not easy; the many cherished memories are always there to remind you of the love once shared. A sibling is meant to be there for us; how we miss their laughter and their shoulder we used when in need of comfort from the world abnormalities.  How I miss my brothers dearly - they had a heart of gold.  A heart that I will forever miss!

Comment by Melinda CANDACE Guinn on October 20, 2017 at 7:31pm

I feel for you. I'm SO VERY sorry!! My lil bro is almost 3 yrs younger than me. He had PHT. I wanted to give him one of my lungs but he told me, "it won't be a good ending". I think he thought we'd both die. He was 54 yrs old with a loving wife and his only child, Ashley adores him. His Spirit came to visit them but they were scared. When my daughter's Spirit came to me, it freaked me out but I was overjoyed!!! We will be reunited!

Comment by Sherri Houle on October 19, 2017 at 12:48am

I lost my younger brother 3 weeks. I am crying all the time and still can't believe he is gone


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