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Comment by SUE on November 24, 2009 at 4:27am

Pat,
I dont think he was saying goodbye, I really think he was trying to hold on...maby to the dream. Just a thought. I replied to your other post and again I know how much this hurts,but do know how much your love loved you back. He just couldnt fight his pain any longer.

Comment by Trish on November 23, 2009 at 10:02pm

2 1/2 yrs. ago my friend and lover took his life. I loved him very much and when I told him this he suddenly stopped taking my calls, changed his number after I left dozens of calls. One month before he took his life he called out of the blue. I was so happy, during our conversation he said I love you Pat. He also said I will be coming down to Fl. to live and we will be together. I was so confused. He was actually saying goodbye. If only I knew, I could have done something. This is hurting so much inside.

Comment by SUE on November 16, 2009 at 9:59pm

Debi,
Seems like you and your sister have had more than your fair share of loss as well. I appreciate your sentiments, Im not an overtly religous person, more rebel really. Thanks for your comments Im sure others here appreciate the thought as well.
Sue

Comment by Debi on November 14, 2009 at 11:17pm

Its hard reading everyones stories.I dealt with a suicidal mother while I was growing up.My sister inlaw lost her husband to suicide ,then their son.Her second husband died from a heart attack and her daughter accidently died from an overdose , but it was listed as a suicide.This was all in about 5 years.I buried my first husband and then 6 months later had to bury my second.I hope everyone can find comfort in Gods love , even if it feels so far away ...

Comment by carol fox on November 9, 2009 at 1:04am

my son died on oct 12, 2009 i dont know for sure how he died, he was on drugs ,but was fighting it, but in my heart i think the drugs won he was 32,6mo,an 4 days , he was by himself when he died,sometimes i dont think i can bear it, that he should have called me,he had before an say mom im not feeling so good care to stay on the phone an talk to me, we would talk fo a long time an he would get sleepie than, he knew he could always call me day or night, i just cant understand why he dident this time, he had been dead twelve hours when he was found,

Comment by SUE on November 8, 2009 at 11:29pm

Sherre,
I am so so sorry for your loss. Losses !! I am a mom but have not lost any children to suicide. For 1 family to endure the loss of more than one member to suicide is alarming to say the least. When my brother died, my doctor was a little concerned, and put me on ant-depressants. At the time I was inconsolable. Please get some professional help, or see your doctor, you have a valid point being afraid, but with love and support you can survive this. Please be gentle with yourself....it helps to talk with others who understand. If you would like another support group for suicide survivors, I know of one. This site does not have as many members as the other one. Sherre you really are not alone with this, its an awful shame you have to be here,glad you found it tho. I cant imagine losing 2 to suicide, I lost 1 brother(suicide) and a step-mom(friend) to murder.
Sue

Comment by sherre Yager on November 8, 2009 at 9:55pm

help im looking for moms for help my son justin 27 years old shot himself march 31 one day after the 30 yr aniversary of my mothers suicide im afraid for myself too
living in a void

Comment by SUE on November 4, 2009 at 9:07pm

Linda,
I left a comment but I guess I did it under your name cause I dont see it here. I hope it helps a little to know you are not alone

Comment by Linda Mills on November 3, 2009 at 10:57pm

My sister died of cancer 4 years ago. Her husband died 2 days after from a heart attack. Now, on Sept. 27th, 2009, my darling niece shot herself in the head, killing herself. If that wasn't all bad enough, we found out that she was 5 1/2 months pregnant. My grief is so that I don't know how much more of this I can take. My sister was only 49 when she died, my niece only 27.

Comment by Dehuelbes on October 31, 2009 at 5:55pm

i'am very sorry for your losses! My grandfather committed suicide, but i have no idea what pain you all feel, because i never even met him... all i can say is that you may find comfort in knowing Jehovah remembers each and every one of them, and he will bring them back :-) and they won't be suffering they'll be in peace. ( Revelation 21:4) "God will wipe every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, nor will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away." (Pslams 37:10,11) " The meek ones themselves will possess the earth. and they will indeed find exquisite delight in their abundance of peace."

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