It always hurts to hear another name added to the suicide forum and it always seems extra sad when it is a young person. 24 is still so young. I offer you my condolences, and if you want to share more about your nephew, I am here to listen. Suicide can be the occurance from a long planned event or something so spur of the moment it defies logic. Not that suicide makes any sense to a healthy mind. Im sorry your nephew was in so much pain....
Im so sorry for your loss, I know what you are going through. My husband took his own life June 3rd this year and we have 2 little girls together and he was only 28 yrs old. No one will ever know why people do this when they have so much to live for. I cant tell you or anyone in your family how you will EVER get over this because for me I dont see an end to the pain. I will tell you what everyone else has told me and that is as time goes on it will ease your pain. You will never forget who he really was, what he did doesnt define him. You are right when you say the pain we are in will never compair to the pain he was feeling and I believe that with my whole heart. Some people just dont see the light at the end of the tunnel and feels life is better off without them here and WE all know thats far from the truth but thats not how they see it. Some family members/friends will be mad at him for what he did and thats normal, for me I havent hit that stage yet. Im just very very sad and feel that Im forgetting him as my husband and best friend for 11 years. Stay strong and stick with your family and friends through this hard time. Dont keep your feelings inside, you have to talk about it and be open with your feelings. Holding them in will only make matters worse. Just think no matter what he is watching over you and your family from Heaven every second of every day and he may not be here with us but he lives on through our hearts. I will you all the best of luck and I will say a prayer for your family.