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Victims of Murder

Parents, Siblings, Grandparents, Relatives & Friends of those who were victims of murder.

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Comment by DEBBIE WRIGHT on May 30, 2013 at 5:49am

Purity Kagwiria Muchena, I am so very sorry for your loss. When someone  we love is taken from us, not of their choice or ours the pain is deep. My grandson of just 22 months life was taken by his father. The pain was like no other I could ever image. Today  1 1/2 yrs later I am coping.. It takes time.  We all greive differently and some slow some quick. It takes time. You will learn to live again.  I just recently started celebrating my grandsons life, the memories he left us. I still feel quilty when Im with family during holidays and laugh but I have the assurance that I will see him again. I found that keeping a journal of all Lucas' memories helps me. .Lean on friends and family and most of all look to God for comfort. He is there to walk with you to hold your hand during this difficult time.. Don't look to tomorrow but live for today. Take one day at a time and just know that I am here praying for you and your family. God Bless you.

Comment by purity kagwiria muchena on May 30, 2013 at 2:08am

I am a victim of murder where thugs raided my house and shot my sister. It has been very painful and not the same again for us and the family. please advice.

Comment by Starr Batis on August 16, 2012 at 7:08am

@Tony Byrdsong..... After reading your comment I was almost brought to tears . I can feel your pain in every word read. What you are going through is the nightmare of every mother. Tony please find inner strength and lean on those close to you to get through this most terrible time. If you are a believer in God , lean on him as he says he "is near to those who are broken at heart and those crushed in spirit he saves " Psalms 34:17 . Believe that he hates to see you go through this and that he feels your pain and wants to console you . Find comfort that he is resting and that no one can ever harm your baby again . My prayers are with you Tony. 

Comment by S.A. Brobin on May 2, 2012 at 11:00am

 I am so sorry that anyone has to go through this. Nothing can take the hurt completely away, but maybe with the passing of time the sharp edges of unrelenting pain and grief will soften . Dying is not natural. Death was not part of God's plan for us, thus we are rightly devastated. Psalms helps us to appreciate we are not alone he is near to us to comfort us.  We are assured that he does not 'try' us with this evil travesty at the Bible book of James 1:14. The fact is that death is God's 'enemy' 1 Corinthian 15:26 that he promises to rid mankind of. Until then our loved ones are Resting in Peace

Comment by DEBBIE WRIGHT on April 14, 2012 at 10:00pm

Hello,

Missing my Beautiful grandson so much. He left this world to soon at just 22 months old. Murdered by his father who shot him then took his own life. I love you so much Lucas

Comment by TOY BYRDSONG on November 27, 2011 at 11:23am
MY SON WILLIAM BYRDSONG WAS MURDERED MAY 23,2010
THEY ARRESTED WILLIAMS KILLER 6MOS LATER AFTER KEEPING HIM LOCKED 7 MOS LATER HE WAS PLACED ON HOUSE ARREST ON MAY 23,2011 1 YEAR LATER THE TRIAL WAS SET ON THAT DATE ONLY TO FIND OUT ON THAT DATE I WAS TOLD THEY WERE DISMISSING THE CASE AND TAKING HIM OFF HOUSE ARREST THE 2 WITNESS WOULD KNOW LONGER STAND TO TESTIFYING TO THIS GUY THAT EVERYONE KNOW HE KILLED MY SON THIS MAN WAS ON PAROLE AND RECENTLY RELEASED FROM PRISON I'M HAUNTED BY THIS VICIOUS ACT OF VIOLENCE THAT TAKEN THE LIFE OF MY ONLY I'M ANGRY SO SEVERLY THIS HAS AFFECTS MENTAL EMOTIONALLY AND IS TAKEN CONTROL OF ME THIS KILLER IS WALKING THE STREETS I'M CAN'T COPE WITH THIS MATTER I'M CRYING OUT THIS IS KILLING ME INSIDE OUT
Comment by Debra Gravon-Morales on March 20, 2011 at 5:41pm
Hi,Eveybody.. I lost my son on March 8th, 2010.. He was shot 2 times in the back.. Once in the liver and the other bullet in the lung.. He was only 18 and the younges of my 5 children.. There 7 who jumped him and a friend and 4 of the suspects were arrested and let go.. Two of them reshot someone again since and still out in this world free. While i have to suffer everyday.. Out of my 5 children he was the most like me..Tonight theye doing a candle memory in his name from the church we did his mass..
Comment by Tina Wills on January 3, 2011 at 6:08am
Hi all.. its been awhile since I've posted here but I have been reading your stories.. please know, I am truely sorry for your loss.... my only brother was murdered Nov. 27, 2009.. I had a candle light vigil in his honor for his one year anniversary.. that was one of the hardest things to do for I felt as if I was saying goodbye all over again... I read your stories and feel your pain... I too live with pain, anger, regret, guilt.... the rollercoaster of emotions from day to day... FAITH!! Faith is the only thing that has gotten me this far... I immediately started praying for forgiveness, because I knew I couldn't live my life with hate in my heart.. but then I feel guilty for not hating... then I get anger, sad!! Sometimes I wish someone would just tell me how I am supposed to feel....... all I do know is that I miss my bubba, painfully!! And that.... murderer also took my life as I will never been the same... I pray each of you find the peace and understanding you all deserve.. please know you are not alone... I am here to talk, listen.. whatever!!! I need u too.... hugs!!!
Comment by Danielle L. Moore on December 29, 2010 at 10:19pm
Trenton Edward Austin murdered June 20th 2009. My Son died his murderer still walks free while the courts continue his case. No justice no peace!
Comment by VICKY on December 6, 2010 at 7:26am
My daughter, Audrey, was murdered on March 7, 2010 by her ex-boyfriend. She had taken out a TPO against him and together we hid for about a week with her little baby. On March 7th she decided to go back to work and he was waiting - when she got off work he followed her and shot her multiple times. I am without my only child and the love of my life. I miss her so very much and I know she is happy, but how do you ever get past something like losing your baby? Christmas is approaching and I just cannot fathom the idea of even putting up a tree, yet I am caring for her little baby boy and know, I must put on a happy face for him.
 

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