Bereaved Spouses

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Comment by david on July 1, 2010 at 8:27am
God please be with Kathy today.

Comment by bc on July 1, 2010 at 7:52am
We are all feeling the same way, lonely. I wish the feelings would end, I'm on the edge of deep depression right now, I finally admitted I need help but the therapist is telling me everything I already know...its normal, it will get easier, etc. Guess she never lost her husband, her best friend. Brad will be gone a year on Aug. 5 and I feel worse now than I did before. I got through one week of memories: his birthday, our anniversary and Father's day all in one week, I was a wreck physically and mentally and I don't see any end in sight. I'm hiding these feelings from everyone because they all think I'm so strong. I know everyone tells me Brad is okay and he would want me to be strong and enjoy life again, but it doesn't help. Hope you are all doing okay, just had to touch base with someone who feels what I feel. Any ideas on how I can live each day not feeling down and depressed? Bless you all!
Comment by mark on June 30, 2010 at 3:51pm
Well 4th of july approaching / holidays sooo sad , no one to call /or make a plans to lake texoma one of the places steven loved to be @ with his family ....Nothing is the same anymore ... hope to find my way this summer .. Mark
Comment by Elaine Richmond on June 30, 2010 at 10:52am
Dear Katy I would be happy if I could just 'skip' at least the rest of this year and maybe the next one too.
My husband was my life, he has been gone less than 4 months, and I truly want to die too.
Comment by david on June 30, 2010 at 9:00am
Virginia I deeply appreciated your comment about signs from your husband . When did he pass? I desperly need a sign from my wife . Maybe I've already received it and was simply too wrapped up in self pitty to recongoize it . (see excuse spelling)
Comment by kathy obiedzinski on June 30, 2010 at 7:53am
Comment by kathleen caylor on June 29, 2010 at 6:53am
Welcome back,Virginia!What a wonderful thing it was For you.To think you're being kissed by an angel!!That makes me feel good!Thanks for sharing.
Comment by Virginia on June 28, 2010 at 3:34pm
Hi Everyone,I'm back from my vacation to N C. and it was wonderfull, even with the 16 month old teething lol. I was reading all the post I missed this past week and for those wanting to know weather we get signs from our spouses yes, I was a believer before loosing Mike but I know it is true as I've had a few, then while on vac. this past week ( we've been there before ) at one of our favorate places, a stream comming out of the mountian side by the road my nephew was taking a picture of me and his wife and baby with his digital camera he started saying oh my god , don't move I need to take another one he did then i asked why and when he was trying to show us he was shaking like a leaf the first one ,right over my mouth and nose was a big white circle then in the second one nothing. he was like, he's here with us talking about Mike, he said it looks like he is giving you a kiss and the whole vac. there was signs everywhere something with his first name (Reed ) or out last name and in our journeys a road named yellow rose ave. yellow roses were Mikes favorate flower of all, our wedding flowers were red and yellow roses all of them every flower there, and I had the casket sprey all yellow roses with a few red roses and babys breath and the greenery and a broken heart made of the same. so there is no telling me he isn't with me. the vacation wasn't a sad one, it was really what I need to do and I'm truelly glad I did. glad to be back. hugs to all.
Comment by Randolph L. Schrader on June 25, 2010 at 11:35pm
I was going to post a sad message but that will have to wait for now as something wonderful has happened to me and my grandson. My wife and I always liked a folk song called "Daisy a Day". My grandson planted Daisies to "give her a daisy a day".
I had posted this some time back and he had planted them a couple months ago.. My wife's garden is all weeds now and I had just pulled out all of the weeds.Low and behold the garden once again filled with weeds and I havent been wanting to pull them.Today,Friday, the whole garden was filled with blooming Daisies. Wow, my grandson can now give his grandmother "a Daisy a Day".A miracle come true.
Comment by lindarunion on June 25, 2010 at 11:29pm
does anyone know how long crying myseif to sleepeverynight myson told me today that ineeded to get al my papers ready to mail andistared to cry about that ithink im losing my mind.thank you linda r

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