Bereaved Spouses

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Comment by Virginia on April 28, 2010 at 5:31pm
Tom, no none of them lol OMG is it that picky lol is there a limit to how much you write at one time thanks virginia
Comment by Virginia on April 28, 2010 at 10:24am
LOL Lois, I didn't use bad words.I think it was to long ,I don't know
Comment by Randolph L. Schrader on April 27, 2010 at 9:52pm
Yes Joan, the flame is out and there is a disconnect. I cant tell you anything you dont already know and will feel. Its been a year and 11 days since my wife of 44 years died. I lost my pal and now my world is suddenly empty. All of the symptoms are still with me from her death and I wish this upon no one.
Comment by Virginia on April 27, 2010 at 9:20pm
this site is working my nerves I just spent the better part of an hour writing on my page for it to tell me error ad something to my comment uggggh think i better put it in a paper journal this bites wanting to share and can't
Comment by Virginia on April 27, 2010 at 7:41pm
Hi all well I the sent a large box of pictures to my husbands children today with a letter for each one of them sealed to their mothers house the only address i have even they are all grown and on their own no phone #'s for any of them. I told my husband I would have my day to tell them what I thought of them and to my pleasent surprise they will get them thursday the 1 yr. ann. of my husbands passing I thought about it for a year but when i got a phone call from one of them in feb. he made my choice for me I dout Ill hear back but the bets are being placed lol by my friends who know the story and I must say when the post lady told me when they would get it I was elated it might not be nice to think that way but after the way they treated him I feel it is devine justice thursday should be interesting. I think I will go into more detail on my page just so i can get it out of my system. virginia
Comment by Dotti on April 27, 2010 at 7:00pm
Its been 8 weeks ago today that I lost my Donnie. I feel like my heart is being ripped out of me
Comment by Virginia on April 27, 2010 at 3:55pm
LOL, Lois I agree
Comment by Joan on April 27, 2010 at 1:09pm
I want to mention to Randolph that to celebrate the flame is something that resonates with me. I have many pictures of John and I together all around the apartment. I light candles every night just like I used to do when he was alive. I pray to God every night to be able to show every one I meet the love that John and I shared, which reminds of God's love. Both are unseen now, but John's love was deeply felt. I have some good days and some bad ones. It's the disconnect that I badly feel now. Just sort of floundering, not having that shoulder to lean on. I'm not sure the disconnect is something that is good. I'm not sure it's a sign that things are getting better and that I'm getting more used to being alone than not. I guess all I can do is lean into my sorrow and feel it whenever it comes. Thank you for all your replies.
Comment by Virginia on April 27, 2010 at 7:32am
Hello all well the letters are written and here ay my side to copy just in case one never knows the fallout things might bring lol I kept a civil tounge but got my message thru. I don't think I'll get a response and don't want or need one they will have to deal with it how they want to putting them in a big box of pics. I no longer have a need for so time will tell lol thanks virginia
Comment by BoLynn on April 26, 2010 at 9:34pm
pooop........testing. This is really crazy, you all...LOL!

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