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This might be a rough time for many of you. Do what you feel you need to do to get through it. Remember, someone is here almost all the time to talk to you.
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Mary.Jane ... I am so proud of you for selling on EBay. I want to sell some things as well, but have no idea how to do it.
I'm trying to clean out things too because the Diabetic Assoc., is coming to get a lot of things from me on the 18th. I feel over-whelmed at times. I still have 2 closets to go through and one is my craft closet and nasty! So much to give away.
Isn't that just the way when you want to print something important it doesn't work. Happened to me several times and I found when that happens there is generally a good reason for it ... DO SOMETHING ELSE AND GIVE YOUR HEAD A REST! Yup, you can always go back to it.
It's so hot here outside of Vancouver, BC and I just got my neighbor to put my A/C in. So muggy and to hot to plant. Humidity is so high and I sure dislike that. Suppose to cool down, but so far can't see it happening.
Happy to hear you are feeling much better and hope it continues.
Sorry Sara...no more insect posts.
Deb...hope your weekend was wonderful.you were in our hearts all weekend. Even if it DIDN,t go as planned..next year it will be better...Bobs birthday is this week. He never made a big deal out of it..so I am ok with it.
I am DONE with that subject. My weekend was WEIRD! Ok I have a question: IS ANYONE ELSE HERE FROZEN? I have a gazillion things I need to do...go through drawers etc, and clean out for my move back to CA. I am shooting for either this fall, or next spring...the one thing I was supposed to b doing was listing all this crap on EBay. I just couldn,t do it! All I had to do is list one thing...to start and I knew I could do the rest. So THIS was going to b the weekend...Saturday was ruined because I have some legal papers I have to print and send..and I couldn,t get my printer to print the entire page..I worked on it all fri night and Saturday...but SUNDAY I told myself I AM GOING TO LIST SOMETHING ON EBAY! then my daughter called, and she wanted to walk me through how to get a page to print right..and I told her NO...I couldn,t do that today....I HAD to do the eBay thing...AND I DID!
i was so excited!!!! I only listed 2 items..and it has changed so much in 10 years..but it was a personal best! I sold for almost 7 years about 10 years ago..and one of my items already has a bid.
and by not focusing on the legal papers, I stopped the Epstein Barr from returning. I needed to b proud of myself An needed motivation to do more. The market has tanked BIG TIME. Bob spent his entire life collecting stuff for his future...so I just couldn,t give it all away. This is for him, so his death wown,t b in vain.
I haven't been able to get on in a few days so I'm catching up on my reading...........and right before I go to bed I'm reading about spiders. Let's just hope I dream about Ken tonight and not about bugs. Although I don't usually check my bed for spiders, I think I will tonight.
All about bugs? For me it's stink bugs....or...as I call them "BOOGERS" I will hunt it down till I get the thing! My little 5 lb dog was chasing something on the floor and barking. Yep...a booger!!! Got it before it got her. Nasty!!!! I catch em and flushed em last summer there was a spider web on the one corner of the porch. I'm as about to get rid of it and stopped....for behold....a booger in the web! Ha!!! The web stayed!!!! Hope ya all had a decent weekend!.
I don’t believe this. 3 minutes ago I was having a cigarette in the garage ..with th door to the kitchen slightly ajar and I saw a Dark shadow under the door..u guessed it..a medium black spider was walking into the kitchen...so I smashed it with the phone book in the garage...then I had to wipe him up, as he would have been stuck to the kitchen threshold forever. All this spider talk..and this is the first one of the season. Now I am afraid to smoke in the garage, and I can,t smoke on the porch after dark cuz the June bugs attack me. Maybe I will finally quit. Yeah, I wish. Goodnite kids.
Oh, I forgot the HUGE precaution..that I will not EVER sleep on a bed without a headboard.where the mattress touches thE wall. That is like a written invitation..for mr. Spider to crawl along the baseboards on the floor, up the wall, and on to your bed pillows that are touching the wall. Actually, that is how my guest bedroom is, and when ever I had to sleep on that bed, I moved the mattress and anything else that touched the wall away from it.
ok, I am only 4 ft 9 inches tall...and I cannot climb into bed (new mattress) without a step stool. I keep it under the bed, and pull it out each evening, (turning it over to make sure a spider isn,t inside the plastic top) I leave it beside the bed at night but always far enough to NOT touch the dust ruffle along the bed, or any blankets that might get droopy and hang over the bed.
CAN YOU SAY ANAL??? Yes, I really need help. I don,t think I am so much afraid of the spider, as I am of the SURPRISE of it. I have been bitten by a brown recluse..in 2014 on the ankle. I never saw it or felt it. The sad part is the really scary looking ones, like the wolf spiders, are not harmful...I actually swept one out the front door instead of killing it. Ironically, tho it was as big as a quarter, I happened to stomp my foot next to it in fear and frustration...and the spider hunched up its legs in terror! I just couldn,t kill it..so I talked to it, told it to stay right there..near the front door, and I ran and got the broom and swept him outside.
i have about 20 telephone books stashed all over the house “just in case” but after I drop the phone book on one, (there is NO WAY I will step on one..eewwwww) I am afraid to lift up the book...so it stays there for quite awhile...cuz it might still be alive. Honestly, this is a horrible way to live.
Ok, first off..Steve..that was lovely...next I wonder how Deb is doing...last night around 6 pm Central time zone, I was vacuuming and suddenly she popped into my brain! I dunno why...so I said a silent prayer that she was ok...but it was kinda strange and out of knowhere...
Now..CHUCK and MARSHA...ENOUGH about the spider. It freaked me out yesterday when I read it, and it is still freaking me out now...oh God! A spider in my BED??? A big one? OMG! And you squished it all over your linens? Hopefully my imagination is worse than it was..but I don,t want to know.
I jump thru a lot of hoops to always be on my guard in case I see one. Upon entering a room, even tho I have just been in there, my eyes scan the room, looking for renegade spiders, or silky threads that might dangle, or a shadow that moves. My bed frame is metal...I read that they don,t like metal, none of my bedclothes touch the floor, even bedskirts...they have to be taller from the floor than a large spider could climb. I never open a large box without wearing gloves, and even my sandals have a one inch sole. I never put on a shoe without banging it on the floor, and my shoes are NEVER left on the floor. I shake garments before putting them on, even if they have only been on the hanger a few hours..(like from the dryer).i shake folded towels from the linen closet before I use them to dry off from the shower...in other words, I am very OCD. Lol. It has been suggested I “see someone” about this, as it is very crippling. I won,t sit on anyone’s outdoor Furniture...well you get the idea.
If you think about it...what other insect invades your space like spiders? Not many snakes under the bed...maybe ants...but just take away what they r trying to get, and they just go away.
I have rescued little snakes from Rudy before he could kill them...three alive, one I was too late...I just put on my gloves, pick them up and put them in the garden. The last one was questionable as it was patterned, so I put it in covered Tupperware, and Googled it to make sure it wasn,t poisonous, then put him outside...but just THINKING about spiders freaks me out. EEEEEKK!
Dear Chuck ... Here's a fitting song from me to you!
He seems to have luck with that gal, but so far all I've been able to attract is that spider, ant bites, a few glances my way (must have something in my teeth) so I've decided to go on crowded buses and pinch a few 'you know what's.' LOL This gal needs some action other than spiders, snakes, squirrels and coyotes. Ewwwww!
Dear Chuck ... I guess that spider issue was pretty funny. I detest spiders! Mice don't bother me. I must be some twisted sort of woman. LOL
You often make me laugh as well, but also your writing can bring me joy or reduce me to tears which is a fine quality you have about you dear brother.
We are having beautiful weather here and not too hot so have been gardening my little fingers to the bone. I love to going to flower nurseries and went Friday night to mooch around and see what I could bring home with me and I ended up with gorgeous New Zealand Impatiens. 6 are so white they actually glow at night and the other is somewhat white with a deep pink/red around the rim and so beautiful. Something about getting your hands in the dirt and seeing plants grow to sooth the savage beast!
Love to you both and have a great weekend,
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