Have you lost a loved one


Have you lost a loved one

A group that is for everyone who has lost a loved one. Share your memories,Talk about what you are going through or maybe find closure.

Location: New Zealand
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Comment by Barbara Jean Woodell on February 9, 2010 at 11:34am
He passed away on Friday Feb.5,2010 My son an I will miss him very much.
Comment by Barbara Jean Woodell on February 9, 2010 at 11:32am
I just lost my husband of 20 wonderful years I love him so much an miss him dearly. He had a massive heart attack an was in danger of having another one an passing away. He was rushed to the hospital in New Bern for a emergency cardiac catherization, they put a stent an a balloon in an he was on alot of medicenes to help him get better. He was in CICU till the night before he passed away. They slowly weaned him off the medicenes an the removed the balloon pump an the meds to keep him sedated becuz the ventilator was helping him breathe. But when he didnt wake up or respond to the nurses or drs. they done another Ct Scan on him an a EEG. The test showed he was brain dead, so his dr. asked me to make the decision to take him off the ventilator or have surgery an to keep him on the ventilator through the trachea an a feeding tube through his stomach.There was no chance of him being the same person he was before,it hurt me to see him that way.My son an I are taking his death really hard we don't have any support from his family an they wouldn't me with the funeral arrangements. It has been really tough on us both his memorial is this Friday at 12:00 noon. I miss him so much an i loved him I can't bear to go places that we went to. There is so much I want to say but I can't.
Comment by Janie on February 4, 2010 at 12:47pm
I lost my ex-husband, who I was still dating and don't know why he was my ex really, on October 18, 2009. His funeral was on the 21st, my birthday. He was killed in an auto accident unexpectedly. I am having a hard time dealing with it. He was my best friend and was always there for me no matter when or what it was I needed. He told always told me how much he loved me and worshiped me and I see now that he really did. I did not see how much he did before and all he wanted was for us to be married again, but I wouldn't. Why couldn't I see before how much he really loved me? He called me the night of the 17th saying he wanted to see me and talk to me, but I had plans with my kids and the next morning he was killed. I can't shake the feeling of wanting to know what he wanted. I miss him so much and I don't know what to do without him now. I feel so lost and alone and I don't know how to deal with him being gone. I cry everyday and I have become obsessed with making flowers for the cemetery and making sure that there are always nice fresh flowers. I miss him every second of every day and I am so lost without him.
Comment by Debbie on February 4, 2010 at 12:43am
Comment by preeti on January 16, 2010 at 6:33am
I lost my love my life my hubby. It was the 13th day of July'09 when I was left alone and lonely. Today after six months and 3 days my life is still at a standstill. I lost the person I loved too much. Today there is not a single moment when he does not remind me of him. I can never forget what he was for me. I lost my mum when I was very young, lost my dad when I was 19 and finally the day came when I lost my world my dear sanju. He was suffering from acute pneumonia and his lungs did not respond. Now I am too much alone in this world. He was the person who gave me strength to live when I lost my dad. He gave me moral support everytime I needed. He was behind me everytime I see back. Now I am alone, can't overcome this truth. I love him too much, God please help me to be with him everytime. I miss him each and every moment of my life.
Comment by Douglas Eugene Morris on January 10, 2010 at 2:38am
on November the 7th, 2009 seventeen days before my birthday, my grandmother Helen Morris died at the age of 99 years young. i used to go over to see her every sunday for dinner. at the assisted living center. whle she was still healthy, my family and i would go over to see her and spend our weekends with her. she was the best cook ever, she loved me a lot. i will miss her very much and will see her again soon.
Comment by shrn on December 28, 2009 at 11:47pm
law and order: criminal intent is on; a show i love..i should be tuned into monday night raw (this for me as much as him)..but neither program matters; i have been crying and talking to steve for almost 2 hours; at least i will sleep well tonight..
Comment by shrn on December 22, 2009 at 1:13am
the number 15 holds great significance for me; it's day of my birthday; we celebrated his 15th year of cancer in remission 8/15/07; the one thing i was so afraid of reappearing; i spoke to him early that tue morning..1/15/08; we were going to have breakfast together..but i didn't hear from him again until 1:48pm; he told me he wasn't feeling well and he had gone home..he owned his own transportation business and took a lot pride in it so i know he really wasn't feeling well..he said he was going to lie down and ask me to call and wake him at 4pm..the last thing he said to me was' "if i didn't think it was contagious..i would want you to come over and take care of me"; and he laughed that little wicked laugh and we hung up..the weirdest feeling came over me then and i realized i should have told him i loved him..i told myself i would tell him when i called him at 4pm; but that feeling stayed with me and :00 couldn't come soon enough..at 3:55..i started calling..i tried his cell..work phone..home and cell again..while his cell was ringing..something in me said he wasn't answering because he couldn't and would never do so again..i then contacted one of his closest associates; 'bear' who was also one of his drivers; and asked him to go over and check in on him..i waited on pins and needles and finally called bear just after 5pm..when bear answered..he didn't say anything..i could hear radio sounds and voices in the background..i suddenly felt so cold..i asked bear if steve was awake; his first words were, "he's gone"..i then responded with "gone were?"..he repeated his initial response..i then started screaming..crying..got drunk..woke up the next morning..realized it wasnt a dream but a living nightmare and took a bootle of pills..i tell i love him always now and how much i miss him..i live alone..i don't even have a pet..i changed my phone #'s and only talk to 1 friend now and even then once a month or so even though we used to work together and even after that..we would talk every day for 2-4 hours; she knew steve and that he made me very happy..i only interact with people at work..i only work because i don't want to die on the streets..i no longer socialize..i am numb to the rest of the world..i am very angry at myself him and the human race. i just want to close my eyes for good..but i am afraid it won't work like before..i am doing this now at the request of my friend because she feels i need some kind of a support group..
Comment by shrn on December 22, 2009 at 12:09am
i am not getting stronger...
Comment by polio on December 16, 2009 at 1:46am
Hi tricia,
I really dont know what you can do to ease the pain.I have lost someone very close to me and still to this day I dont think i have fully excepted his passing.I just take it day by day. Some days its so painful to think about the memories, other days its not as bad.With time it gets easier and you get stronger,I also think that having experienced a loved ones passing, you come out a stronger person.I hope this has helped

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