Have you lost a loved one


Have you lost a loved one

A group that is for everyone who has lost a loved one. Share your memories,Talk about what you are going through or maybe find closure.

Location: New Zealand
Members: 98
Latest Conversations: Jun 4, 2017

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Please join this group if you have lost a loved one.
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We deeply sympathise for your loss .

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Missing my brother and father

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Comment by Tricia on December 12, 2009 at 12:05pm
I lost the love of my life june 21,2008, I can't seem to find the right way to deal with his death. I loved Johnny more than life, I knew he was sick but when he didn't die in a yr. like dr's said I thought it wasn't as bad as we thought. He lived 6 1/2 more years, AND THEN HE WAS GONE. I t hurts so bad.I know that he would not want me like this but I can't do this without him. We were a team, so how do I do this ?
Comment by shrn on December 4, 2009 at 5:36pm
i aplogize if my mesg as offended some of you..this is my first time doing something like this..only at the advice of a close friend..
Comment by tammy on November 1, 2009 at 4:10am
Hi my name is tammy. On September 22 i found my father dead on my couch i was devasted i really didnt think i was going to make it threw it. My father and i were very close just like my son and i were. Well about two and a half weeks after my father past away . I got some more very disturbing news my son who was 21 and stationed over in korea with the army , I was told killed himself On October 14th. I just could not beleave all of this was happening to me and why was ithappening to me as far as i was concernd i had been through enough already . We know sooner have barried our son and then his birthday comes up i really just don't know what to do when october 9 comes around. I'm just going to die i miss my baby so much i just don't know how much more i can take.
Comment by sue ferrante on October 22, 2009 at 5:11am
my name is sue I just lost my great grandaughter she was 45 days old, kattie was born with her heart on the right side upside down, she needed a heart tranplant she got her heart from a baby that died from sids. the heart wa the same size as hers but it didn't fiton the left side so they couldn't close her up the heart sat on her chest kattie was very heavyly sadected ,she was put on Susan lap and she took her last breath with family all around her Sat. at 2p.m. she will be laid to rest. I also lost a child 13 years ago to a drunk driver who happen to be Carlos' friend.will talk later, have to go to work, I found my calling after my son died, I work in a daycare that is my confront zone, where children love you , need you and they love to hug, peace Sue
Comment by polio on October 9, 2009 at 6:15pm
Its admirable to know that your opening up and talking about your grandma.I have for so long never talked about the loss of my grandfather and it just feels more comfortable for me to talk to a person i dont know rather than a family member.The more you talk about your grandma the easier it will be for you,im not saying it will happen over night but with time it will .It sounds as though your hurting a great deal and trying to find someone or something to blame. These feelings you have towards your father and brother, all these emotions your feeling will soon go away and it does get better.
Comment by diane adcox on October 9, 2009 at 11:42am
thank you im so glade i found this site its been hard dealing with the loss but its even harder knowing that im going throwe this alone well i have my housband but he can only do so much . after talking with my aunt this week i learned my father was not even with nanny when she passed on she died in the hosptol alone this relly upsets me since my father and brother said they never left her alone they was with her till the every end know i find out she was by herself. i know she lived a long life 89 is a long time but to me its is just so hard to let her go because we was so close i know god had another plan for her the last year of her life she was so sick and almost child like again she depended on dad to help her im not saying he dident but to let her alone to die by her self is just to hard to take . if i had known she was so far gone i would have gone to texas to say my last goodbye but i was not told till she had already passed on my brother jim said he would call me if there was any change but eather dad said wait or he just dident do it all it just hurts so much because they knew how close i was to my grandma she was the last grandma and the one i was closest to.i feel torn,sad and angry but most of all it feels like my heart is brearking in two all i do is cry and its hard for me to keep my mind of work because i think of all the little things she used to do for me and know she is gone.thanks for getting back to me and i look forward to helping each other throwe the pain thanks again. diane
Comment by polio on October 8, 2009 at 11:45pm
Hi diane, Thankyou for becoming a member and i appreciate your comment.I realise that loosing your grandma has been very sad for you, or even traumatising.I am no specialist but i have gone through something similar and i feel i can relate to you .I believe it is completely normal for you to be feeling the way you are towards your father,In a way i think what your going through is the healing process.I lost my grandfather in 2007 and I was extremely close to him,he was my best friend.At nights i sometimes cry alone and it feels like now, it hurts even more than it did 2 years ago.Im still grieving and for some reason i want to blame someone.I hope this has helped
Comment by diane adcox on October 8, 2009 at 5:36am
hi i lost my grandma on sept 23,2009 im haveing such a hard dealing with her dealth.i was not able to go to see her one last time.i find myself crying in the middle of the night and sleeping with her picture,i know it takes awhile to get over the griefing but how do i deal with the anger i feel at my father for not allowing me to at least say my last goodbye to her even if she never heard me at least in my heart i could say i told her how much she ment to me and thank her for loveing and takeing me in i miss her so much sometimes it feels like my heart will brake in two. i feel all alone since im no longer talking to my dad and brother sometimes i cry and other times i get so mad that i wont to call and tell my father off my housband said maybe thats what i need is to just get it off my chest right know i just cant deal with them its hard eought dealing with the loss of grandma there will be time to voices my anger later. am i normal for feeling this way about my father and brother? help i relly need a surport group who knows what im going throwe and feeling.

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