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Started by T Dominic Smith. Last reply by Mapisha Cruise Jul 23, 2012.
Started by Kristi with a "K". Last reply by Kristi with a "K" Mar 15, 2010.
It's coming up to be the anniversary of one of my best friends. I feel the lost. She died to cancer after knowing for only two months. She had 2 girls and a husband and I know that they miss her dearly too.
Its only been a month since I lost my best friend, Shawn. We dated for almost two years, and during that time we nearly spent everyday together. He was my other half, and I feel like I'll never be whole again now that he's gone. It feels like there's a hole left in my heart and each day it just gets bigger and bigger. I miss him so much
[tears] - thanks Donna, everytime i see someone end their message "hugs" i start to cry because shawn did that all the time. OMG i just miss him so much, ive feel like ive lost my path in life, i dont know where to go next or what to do :-(
Dominic there are truly no words that can make the pain go away. It takes time. But I know what your going through I have been there myself. If you have read my last post I too lost my bff her name was kathleen. She was a one million, and I believe now she was my guardian angel in human form. I spent eight years with her, and I can tell you without a doubt it was the best years of my life. Remember all the good times you guys had together. Shawn will always be with you. There are also groups that meet up each week that do greif counselling, it may help you dea with some of your feelings. And please dont do anything that you will regret. Hugs, Donna.
I don't know if this site can help me but I really need help. The single most closes person to me on earth, closer to me than my own family, my bestfriend Shawn died on January 13th, 2012 and his memorial was February 4th, 2012. His birthday was February 7th, he would have been 30 years old. OMG - I hurt so badly. I cry every day and several times a day. I can't sleep at nights, I cant focus at work, I'm failing in school, and I've lost 15 pounds because I refuse to eat. All I do is cry. I just want him to come back, nothing no one says helps me, I just NEED him to come back to me pleaseeeee. Shawn always knew what to say, he always knew what to do, he was my foundation. He died from complications with CLL (Leukaemia) after being diagnosed in 2004. He didnt have a good relationship with his family, and it turns out that I knew more about him than ANY ONE else. His family was calling on me for photos and information because they've been missing the past 10 years of his life. I have nightmares where I wake up crying and I dont remember what I dream. Before shawn died, he would always tell people that he was worried most about me and how I would deal with his death. Well now that hes gone ... I can't deal with it. I just want to go with him. I don't want to live anymore. People say the dumbest things like (get over it, shawn would want you to be happy, hes in a better place, hes looking down on you) a bunch of cliches that DON'T HELP! Some days im angry, some days im depressed. I listen to his favourite songs, he would send me songs about our friendship and how much he loved me. He was the big brother I always wanted. I am a christian and my faith brings no peace or comfort. I just want to run away and leave everything behind. I watch his video of him singing (he loved to sing) ... the pain is intense, I dont want to live without him. I try praying and talking to God, i try talking to shawn, i try everything ... I can't continue like this ... my heart will fail me very soon if I dont get some help.
Recently ive lost two of my best friends my 1st best friend madeline we had been best friends since we were babys we did everything together and in November two days after her 19th birthday she shows up at my house saying we need to talk and she says that we cant be friends anymore because she wants to get out and meet new people and that i am the only person she hangs out with and that she wants me to break up with my then boyfriend darrick she also told me how her parents didnt want us to be friends anymore because she was white and i was black i managed to not show how i really felt but inside i was so hurt then over the holiday i kept getting emails on my phone from her email account and i realized that she forgot to log out her email last time she used my phone and i happen to read this email from her boyfriend who i never met and he was just saying all this stuff about how e's glad me and her arent friends anymore and i'm bad news and he's been hearing a bunch of stuff about me and she was just agreeing with him like ive just been this bad person thats when i realized that there was no point in trying to be her friend ever again cause obviously she didnt care about as much as i cared about her then just today January 5, 2012 my best friend efrim ended our friendship we go to job corp together we even started on the same day and over the time we went here we had grown very close to each other he understood me and i understood him we could tell each other anything and he has this girlfriend who is very obnoxious and insecure she didnt like us being friends at all now i will admit during our friendship we did begin to have feelings for each other and we did date for a minute but during that time he wasnt with her but they still lived together and she was having guys over at the house while he was at school but she still kept trying to prevent him from seeing anybody else but when drama got to bad we both decided it would be best to just stick to being close friends but now his girl is starting drama again and she keeps thinking i want him when i dont i have my own man who i love very much so over the past 2 days shes been txting my man trying to break us up and ive already told him about efrim and thing but just today efrim came up to me and said that we shouldnt be friends anymore because he is tired of fighting with his girl and then he just walked out my life after that ive been holding back tears all day and its not really working how do i get past these two heartbreaks? will i ever get over them?
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