I have read some of the other posts and feel comforted knowing the way I feel is normal after all for someone who lost a spouse.  I decided to come up with a list of some of my most challenging things to deal with since my husband died 11/5/2010 in a car accident.  This is a list of my top 40 (in no special order).   Some of the hardest things to cope with after you lose your spouse: Lonliness E…