I am new to this group.  My son took his own life Nov. 26, 2010.   This may sound like an odd thing to ask, but I've not been able to go through his things and disperse them or sell them, or whatever.   How long or when do most people do this?  Would it help me to do it?   I've tried going through clothing, etc. and have put some in bags (which are now heaped on the floor) and I find myself hangi…