I would really like a friend (or more than one) that is experiencing a similar situation to mine.  I am 46.  My husband was 36.  I have a grown daughter and a son in college and my husband's son is 10 and lives in another state.  We had no children of our own.  We have been married almost 7 years.  He was in a horrible automobile accident on April 16 and had to be removed from life support on Apr…