Hi everyone, It has been three and a half months since Bob passed.  He was creamated but not buried. He has been on my mantel ever since.  My thinking was that I wanted to be buried with him when the time came, I have found it very hard.  I have chosen to have his cremains buried on our anniversary the 26th.  It would have been 21 years.  His two daughters who live out of state cannot attend, but…