Hi...I just found out about this group.  I wish I knew about it before  now.  It's been 13 1/2 months since my husband died.  Going from a person who knew what they were doing to being all over the place is crazy.  I have been reading the discussions and it is like reading about myself.  Before this I was grounded...not anymore.  I feel comfort knowing I'm not the only one who feels like I do...R