Angela Blacklidge
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At 1:56pm on September 11, 2010, Cathy Pearly said…
My name is Cathy Pearly and I too lost my 20 year old son in a motorcycle accident on 3/11/07. He was our only child. I know exactly what you mean when you say it is hard to watch his friends grow up and his girlfriend move on....I just got an invitation to one of my sons friends wedding, and while I am happy for him, I am sad that my son won't have a wedding of his own. I also just found out that my sons girlfriend, whom he lived with at the time of his accident, is now 6 months pregnant with her new boyfriends baby....This is supposed to get easier as time passes by....it seems way harder to me...all the things I will never see my son experience are just being shoved down my throat right now and I think it sucks. Anyway....just wanted you to know that I know how you feel. I hope you are surviving.
At 3:44pm on August 4, 2010, Susan said…
Hi Angela.......it's me again....Susan., Go visit the site I set up in my son's memory. It's http://rncordova.bravehost.com. That is r n, not m. I am the blonde, the young man is, of course, my son, and the young woman is my daughter. There is one pic of my son with a young lady.....that is his fiance'. He died 1 week before their wedding.
At 3:44pm on August 4, 2010, Susan said…
Hi Angela.......it's me again....Susan., Go visit the site I set up in my son's memory. It's http://rncordova.bravehost.com. That is r n, not m. I am the blonde, the young man is, of course, my son, and the young woman is my daughter. There is one pic of my son with a young lady.....that is his fiance'. He died 1 week before their wedding.
At 3:38pm on August 4, 2010, Susan said…
Hi Angela.........................my name is Susan. I know just what you're going through, as my 30 year old son died in a motorcycle accident almost 4 years ago. He was my middle child, but he was a momma's boy. I still misshim so much that sometimes I could just scream. The why's will follow you as long as you live. In this lifetime, we will never have any answers to them. My sister in law told me once that she believes God takes the best ones first......I believe that too. Whenever you need to vent, to scream or whatever, email me. My email address is susancaroltodd@hotmail.com. You and your family will be in my prayers always.
At 3:38pm on August 4, 2010, Susan said…
Hi Angela.........................my name is Susan. I know just what you're going through, as my 30 year old son died in a motorcycle accident almost 4 years ago. He was my middle child, but he was a momma's boy. I still misshim so much that sometimes I could just scream. The why's will follow you as long as you live. In this lifetime, we will never have any answers to them. My sister in law told me once that she believes God takes the best ones first......I believe that too. Whenever you need to vent, to scream or whatever, email me. My email address is susancaroltodd@hotmail.com. You and your family will be in my prayers always.
At 7:08am on August 4, 2010, valerie moore said…
ANGELA, WE HAVE TO KNOW, FOR SOME REASON, SOME HOW, THAT GOD HAD A PLAN FOR OUR CHILDREN THAT IS THE BEST FOR THEM. WE MAY NEVER UNDERSTAND, AT LEAST I DONT THINK I WILL EVER GET TO A PLACE WHERE I UNDERSTAND...WHY WHY WHY... WHY ME, WHY HIIM. JUST PLAIN WHY./ I WILL PROBABLY END UP IN A DAY HOSPITAL HAVING INTENSE THERAPY JUST TO HELP ME. PRAYING FOR YOU, VAL
At 5:32pm on August 3, 2010, valerie moore said…
angela, i lost my son dusty in aug 28, 2009- i too very much relate to exactly how you worded it, you may begin screaming and not stop also, not being able to breath.. very sorry for your loss. your in my prayers, val
At 4:33am on August 3, 2010, kathy said…
My heart is reaching out to you and your husband, daughter and grandson for what you’re going through and I'm sorry to read your hearts aches with sadness I am praying for you and your family, working through grief takes patience, patience, and more patience you're used to having your son in your life and now he gone The Bible assures us: “God is near to those that are broken at heart; and those who are crushed in spirit he saves.” (Psalm 34:18) You say People suggest therapy, but right now, all you can think is that they can't change anything, they can't bring him back to his family this is true however I read this thought and I would like to share it with you; Therapists recommend that you express, not repress, your grief. Counselor Dr. Earl Grollman suggests: “It is not enough to recognize your conflicting emotions; you must deal with them openly. That is why there is a mourning period. This is a time to share your feelings.” Don’t get me wrong I’m not recommending that you have therapy. Your son has fell asleep in death and this is a very painful process for you and your family. I hope that you will find comfort in knowing that others are thinking and praying for you.
At 10:53pm on August 2, 2010, Angela Blacklidge said…
I am new to this page, but I feel like God helped me find it in order to save what is left of my sanity. My 20 yr old son,Justin, was killed in a motorcycle accident on Mar 7,2009. He was killed by someone who said "I saw him but thought I could beat him" She gets through her days by just putting it out of her mind. Must be nice. I had been doing OK. Not good, OK. I am not sure what has changed so much in the last few weeks, but I feel like I am slowly losing control. I read some of the posts, and I see so much of myself in them. The one where she says it is hard to see his friends grow up and get married and his girlfriend to move on with her life...well that all especially hit home. He was my only son, my baby, my best friend, my confident and so much more. I miss him with every breath I take and at times, I am afraid that I am going to start screaming and not be able to stop. People suggest therapy, but right now, all I can think is that they can't change anything, they can't bring him back to his family. I can talk about him all day long to family and friends. But he's still gone. And he won't be coming back. If any of you know how to come back from this edge I find myself on, please tell me. I have a husband, daughter and a grandson who deserve a whole person. Not what I am now. Thanks for any help
 
 
 

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