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David (Davey) Andrew Chavez

Posted on November 29, 2010 at 8:50pm 11 Comments

He became an angel September 24, 2010. He had just turned 24 August 8. He was on his way to work on his motorcycle. He had just bought it 2 months prior and was so proud of it and so very cautious. The accident involved a big rig. That is all we know. We decided that it was better not to know what exactly happened because it would cause us more pain and not bring him back. They said he…

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At 8:06pm on September 6, 2011, liz pozniak said…
I carried you for 9 months, i watched you explore this new world and saw wonder in your eyes.i let go as you became a man. And i held on tight when you passed me by on your way to a better place. Now i long fpr your touch, i strain to hear your voice. Please watch over us till we jpin you again.
I am sorry for your loss. It has been 2 and a half years since we lost our son.may you be comforted by friends and remeber his laughter, smiles and goofiness that all so s give us....
At 8:06pm on September 6, 2011, liz pozniak said…
I carried you for 9 months, i watched you explore this new world and saw wonder in your eyes.i let go as you became a man. And i held on tight when you passed me by on your way to a better place. Now i long fpr your touch, i strain to hear your voice. Please watch over us till we jpin you again.
I am sorry for your loss. It has been 2 and a half years since we lost our son.may you be comforted by friends and remeber his laughter, smiles and goofiness that all so s give us....
At 10:36pm on June 22, 2011, Nichole Lynn Lester said…
Thank you for the friend request..I'm also glad I found this site . I'm lost,stuck.hurt,confused,ect.. and I dont know what to do,how to start getting past this..A friend told me that nothing will ever be "normal" again,that I have to start a "new normal" and of course that isnt what I want,I want my son back and to be normal again...How do you start? When will it start getting a little easier? Each new day I miss Justin that much more,I dont know how to live w o him? Sorry for your loss,motorcycles are so very dangerous,how would one stand a chance if wrecked,nothing there to protect you and Justin's helmet flew off and his biggest internal injury was bleeding and pressure in his brain...My heart aches for you as well,i'm also opened for any advice to help cope... Thank You
At 6:27pm on June 14, 2011, Alicia Rodriguez said…
Im so sorry for your loss. I lost my beloved son 7/12/09 two years and it dosnt get any easyerill pray for us all.God Bless you.
At 10:16pm on May 8, 2011, Cathy said…

Anita,

Thinking of you this Mother's Day. I know you miss your son so much as I do mine.  I'm not sure why we must go through this pain.   I hope you made it through today okay.  You're in my prayers. 

Cathy ~ Charlie's Mom (www.333technologies.com)

 

At 12:25pm on April 22, 2011, Terri - Autumn's Mom said…
Hi Anita,
I believe you are one of the people that had recommended the book to me. I really appreciate it, so far, the little I've read, has been beneficial. I'm highlighting parts that pertain to me so I can go back later and re-read them.
Thanks again for the recommendation.
At 11:15am on April 20, 2011, shannon churchill said…

Saw the post for the service and watched it..    Such a special boy and reminded me so much of my Tommy.    You had so many wonderful reminders of his life in those photo's and I know it is hard to watch but at the same time it brings you joy seeing him.   Life was never supposed to end up this way.   We were supposed to get to see them have families and have them hold our hand when we left before them.   I just wish I could have been with my Tommy when he left this earth as I am sure you feel the same.     God Bless you and help you to find peace in your heart.   Hugs, Shannon

At 11:15am on April 20, 2011, shannon churchill said…

Saw the post for the service and watched it..    Such a special boy and reminded me so much of my Tommy.    You had so many wonderful reminders of his life in those photo's and I know it is hard to watch but at the same time it brings you joy seeing him.   Life was never supposed to end up this way.   We were supposed to get to see them have families and have them hold our hand when we left before them.   I just wish I could have been with my Tommy when he left this earth as I am sure you feel the same.     God Bless you and help you to find peace in your heart.   Hugs, Shannon

At 10:23pm on April 13, 2011, Cathy said…
Anita, thank you for visiting Charlie's website and thank your for your prayers too. You hang in there and know we're all in this together. It is sad we have to meet this way, but it is good that we have the support and feel comfort that there are people who really understand what we're going through. It's not always easy to attend a support group in person, but I'm finding that this site helps me a lot. It helps me to know I can do something to help others too for I can always pray for them.
Cathy - Charlie's Mom
At 7:46pm on April 13, 2011, Cathy said…

Anita,

I looked at the pictures of your beautiful son and watched the video.  He "is" precious and I say that in the present tense because he still lives but not an earthly life like we do.  I too lost my son, Charlie, August 20, 2010.  It's hard to believe it's almost 7 months now.  Some days the pain feels like yesterday and then it seems like it has been forever since I've seen him, which was my birthday (241 days ago).  He also was snatched away from us in an accident.  He was skateboarding with his dog - that's how he exercised the dog almost every day.  No one saw the accident - all we know is he fell and had a terrible head injury. He was 31and and married but had no children yet.  He would have been such a good daddy - I saw that in how he made time for his dog and took care of him.  My son's dog missed him too and actually died 4 months later so unexpectedly - he was only 2 years old and healthy but his stomach flipped the day after Christmas.  All I could think about is if that had happened 4 months earlier, my son would still be alive.  I guess God had a purpose for the dog and he served that purpose.  We felt like we lost another little piece of our son when that happened though. Thinking of them being reunited is a pleasant thought and I have to think that way to get through this.  Please know that I pray for everyone in this group and will be praying for you and your family too.  Without hope and God's promise, we couldn't make it. My son had returned from a mission trip to Ecuador about a month before his accident and he filmed the work his church did there - his video is on his website: http://www.333technologies.com  He has several pictures of him and family there to. I hope you will visit and share it for I feel that every time someone visits his website, our loss is not in vain as his blogs may touch someone else and help them to find God.

Hugs,

Cathy - Charlie's Mom

 

 

 
 
 

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