Thanks you, it was a wonderful link, it helps a lot, anything that can help me feel just a little better over my loss is greatly appreciated.

Elvira

Thank you for the link Anna May, must say it was very faith strengthening, anything that can help me feel just a little better is appreciated.

Thanks again,

Elvira

Thank you Anna May, hope you get some sleep as well.

Hi Anna May....I am always confused about that verse in the bible.  What about the signs that are there when they pass?  And I have been told they can hear you when you talk to the one you lost?  And they are always right there looking over you. I have tried reading the bible but it's too confusing for me.    Shirley

Thank you for wanting to be a friend.  Death is the worst burden that a person can carry in their heart. I too wonder if I could have done more to save my son.  Could I have prayed more and louder for God to bring him back,  maybe a miracle would have happened if I had prayed harder??  We just beat ourselves up over " WHAT IF" and its no good for you and me. I believe we will be with the ones we lost to death when our turn comes so I wait.  No words will make your heart heal. We have to get by the best we can.  One day at a time that's all we can do.  Take care I am here for you.

Shirley

Hi Anna May ...  Wonderful to be your friend.  I meant to tell you that I have a cousin named Anna May and seeing your name reminded me of how long it's been since I've seen her (she lives in another Province in Canada.)

I hope you are having a peaceful weekend my friend.

Marsha

I would have and should have save Mark. I love him so much, I was his Mother. If I would have went in hisroom sooner. It sounded like he was sleeping. But ,now that think back, I knew he had an early appointment not far from the house. It was 8:30am. His appointment was at 8;00. Why did I think he had already none and was back sleeping in his room. At least 2 hours passed ( 2 hours) It could have made the differents   God please forgive me. Mark please forgave him

Anna I keep reading your post to me over and over.  You really are a wonderful, and sweet person.  Just wanted you to know that!!

Phyllis~Chads' Mom

Thank you Anna for requesting friendship. Im so sad all the time and with each and ever passing day since my daughter was murdered, Jan. 25,2012 I have died a tiny bit everyday and Im sure it will continue to be this way. There is no such thing as closure and I dont use that phrase because when you want your loved one back there is  such thing. My heart will always be aching and I dont feel Ill ever be happy again. I am very thankful for my blessings and my family and close friends and those are the reasons Im here besides my love for and faith in God. If not for those people and the spirit of the lord I just couldnt go on. I will continue to be thankful and trust in the lord so that I will have the strength to get through each day I am blessed with. May God always bless and keep safe you and yours.