hi i just wanted to ad u as a firend this is my first time... i;m not sure of your situattion,but we have to make the best out of this tragic evevt that took place in our lives. my mother was killed by her at the time fiance of 10years. and everything is not meant for us to understand!!! u r my sista we both are one of god children take care of ur self imma pray for y tonite c u later!!