Can anyone please tell me if there is a right or wrong time to get out any thank you notes from the funeral.  For all the flowers and food.  It has been 5 weeks and I just haven't been able to do it yet.  My brother told me that was unacceptable.  Is it okay I am taking my time, until I can emotionaly do this?  Any advice would be great.

Thanks

Ashlyn

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