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Posted on July 13, 2010 at 8:20am 7 Comments

My Brad passed away on August 5, 2009. It was very sudden, he left to go to the store and the minute he left our subdivision (35 seconds later) he suffered cardiac arrest and was gone. I heard sirens and had a sick feeling in my stomach for a few seconds and then my neighbor came over to ask if Brad was home, I said no but he would be right back, thinking she needed help with something as Brad helped everyone out. She had a funny look on her face and said there was an accident and there was a… Continue

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At 7:29am on December 14, 2012, Dixie Olson said…

My husband to found a dog on the canal, its a female pit-bull, big, after Don died she would not come in the house for 5 yrs, she kept waiting for him, I didnt have the heart to give her away, during a bad rain storm she came in the house I got her a towel and got her dry, an a dog blanket, now she's a house dog, lol an rules the roost, I have 2 other dogs(weenie dogs) an my husband' turtle he found so it's a zoo here but they are loved. My youngest son just moved back home with me as he was always worried after i fell and broke my arm, so he's a GOD* send, and Im not alone now altho sometimes I miss the quiet. My oldest son lives 4 houses down w/ his wife an my gr-kids but we have problems o well. Im not going to dwell on it. it's there loss.

At 5:56pm on April 19, 2011, ginny lee weger said…

Dear BC,

 

Thank you for accepting me as a friend.

 

Yours was such a traumatic experience and so sudden.  As months go by friends go on living their lives and we are left with so many little memories of things our husbands did for us that bring it all back and it is a very lonely feeling.So many things I did not realize I would miss so much.  When I would read and fall asleep, he would take my book and my glasses and put them away. Every day I remember so much that I miss about him. His smile and laugh was so

contagious that during a tour of a castle, the tour guide stopped everything and

spoke to my husband about his wonderful smile. He made his long illness bearable beause he joked, smiled and laughed every day. He was heartbroken when he had to retire at barely 46, but he managed to not take it out on me or

his family. With many surgeries and three defibrillators he lived many more years. Surgeons told us he was amazing, and he was.  I am sure your husband

was just as dear.

GW

 

My husband died on April 2, 2010.  His death has not gotten easier. 

At 8:36pm on December 24, 2010, Ellen Brant said…
At 9:57pm on December 10, 2010, Ellen Brant said…

Barb wanted to stop by with a hug and let you know Brad's star is out there winking down over you. HUGS from Brad too. Ellen~

At 9:36pm on December 8, 2010, Ellen Brant said…
BRAD HUGS BIG TIME!!!

At 12:03am on November 21, 2010, Susan Mayer said…
Hi Barb - How are you doing? Just wanted you to know I'm thinking about you and sending a hug. - Susan
At 6:40pm on November 17, 2010, Marsha Thompson said…
Oh Barb! I wish I could just give you a huge hug right now, I will pray for you that you'd be comforted by God's love and feel Brad's presence with you!
At 10:18pm on November 16, 2010, Marsha Thompson said…
How are you doing Barb? Was just thinking about you...
At 10:18pm on November 16, 2010, Marsha Thompson said…
How are you doing Barb? Was just thinking about you...
At 1:53pm on November 10, 2010, Ellen Brant said…
Barb, Thank you so much for the post on my page. It truly means a great deal to me. I am forever grateful to have read and copied the poem you posted. That truly touched my heart. I JUST received a call from the funeral home telling me Doug's "REMAINS" are ready to be picked up. I have never cried before at the thought of Doug coming home but this is just so OBSCURE to me.
Thanks for listening and being here. HUGS.
 
 
 

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