Hello. My name is Kelly Mc Clinton and I just joined this support group. I want to send you my condolensces in the sudden lost of your father. I lost my father nineteen years this past March, and my mother four years this past February, the loss of my mother was unexpected and I still grieve, but what gets me through each day is remembering all of the good times I had with her. So try and do that to see if it helps you also.
Ben, My heart goes out to you. My Mom died unexpextantly on August 19, 2009. I feel like i have been numb since. The Dr. put me on anti depressants about 2 weeks ago. Momlived with my wife and kids for the last 2 years. We were all so close. Just be strong and think of the good memories of your father. Don't be afraid to talk about him and DONT let anyone tell you it's time to get over it. I dont think one ever gets over it. You get past it, thru it but never over it. I know cause my dad died 25 years ago, I was 21 at the time.I still miss him, but i am ok with it. This web site seems to have a lot of people in the same situation as we are in. Go ahead and talk about it, talk about him. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Look me up on here and message me back if you ever want to talk. My name is Don