How do I live with this pain in my heart this pain in my soul? I have questions as to WHY? What happened. If only I knew maybe I could have closure. I miss him so much. I want to hold him as a baby again and keep him safe. Thanks for understanding.
Carrie,
Thanks for sharing your loss and how you manage to live one day at a time. It's the worst loss in the world. I want my baby back. I want to hold him so he will be ok. Shan 43 passed away April 22, 2012. We buried him on the 28 th. I am sick. Can't sleep so I'm taking sleeping pills also. This pain is so bad there are no words fitting. I just have to know WHY?
Carrie, Thank you so much for commenting on my site. You are correct -- it is a horrible journey, and we are suffering so much. My deepest sympathy to you in your loss. Take care, Carol
HI CARRIE JUST STOP TO SAY IM THINKING OF YOU. ON THIS LONELY JORNEY.AND SO SAD IMISS MY SON SO MUCH.SOMETIMES. IT FEELS LIKE A DREAM.THAT IM GONNA WAKE UP FROM.BUT NOT SO HOW ARE WE TO LIVE THE REST OF OUR LIVES WITH OUT OUR CHILDERN.OH GOD WHY.IM SORRY.IM JUST SO MAD.ALICIA JESSE'S MOM
Carrie. My name ia Alicia my son 28 passed on 7/12/09 i miss him everyday im so sorry for you're loss.for me the nights are the worst i can't sleep got to take sleeping pills so hard to lose a child.I pray for all of us here on this site the pain dosnt go away we learn to live with it God bless you.. Alicia Jesse's MOM
Carrie. My name ia Alicia my son 28 passed on 7/12/09 i miss him everyday im so sorry for you're loss.for me the nights are the worst i can't sleep got to take sleeping pills so hard to lose a child.I pray for all of us here on this site the pain dosnt go away we learn to live with it God bless you.. Alicia Jesse's MOM
Carrie. My name ia Alicia my son 28 passed on 7/12/09 i miss him everyday im so sorry for you're loss.for me the nights are the worst i can't sleep got to take sleeping pills so hard to lose a child.I pray for all of us here on this site the pain dosnt go away we learn to live with it God bless you.. Alicia Jesse's MOM
I hope that my words bring comfort to those who read them. I am committed to teaching people the tools, like therapeutic laughter, to help get a little relief from the pain of grief when it becomes overwhelming. I think the term "good" grief refers to a couple of different things. First of all, instead of "good" I use the term healthy. I help people to grieve in a healthy way, so that they can adjust to life without their loved one. I also look for the good that can come out of any situation. Sometimes it may be a phone call from a caring friend or an ability to help others who have had a loss. May all be blessed on their journey.
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Thanks for sharing your loss and how you manage to live one day at a time. It's the worst loss in the world. I want my baby back. I want to hold him so he will be ok. Shan 43 passed away April 22, 2012. We buried him on the 28 th. I am sick. Can't sleep so I'm taking sleeping pills also. This pain is so bad there are no words fitting. I just have to know WHY?
Carrie,
I hope that my words bring comfort to those who read them. I am committed to teaching people the tools, like therapeutic laughter, to help get a little relief from the pain of grief when it becomes overwhelming. I think the term "good" grief refers to a couple of different things. First of all, instead of "good" I use the term healthy. I help people to grieve in a healthy way, so that they can adjust to life without their loved one. I also look for the good that can come out of any situation. Sometimes it may be a phone call from a caring friend or an ability to help others who have had a loss. May all be blessed on their journey.
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