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At 1:52am on November 23rd, 2009, Rev.James Durden said…
Hi Cassie,I hope you're getting better even though its hard & keeping a strong heart wil be th challenge so kep your head up your heart open and your mind fresh as your Brittany would have liked you too,there are many things to do as you stay on track and continue to travel thru life with the heart of Brittany close to your chest you'll see that warms you up at every turn and no one will take that warmth away.God Bless you is my prayer.
At 7:17am on November 3rd, 2009, A S said…
Hello Cassie,
I am so sorry for the loss of you beloved daughter Brittany. Many bereaved parents are relieved to learn that God did not take their child in death, as some religions teach. However, this sobering fact remains: God does have the power to prevent death. Yet, he allows it to continue.
So when a child dies, parents may cry out in anguish, “Why did God let it happen?” Death, whether by accident, by disease, or by violence, almost always seems cruelly unfair. A child’s death seems even more so. How could God allow such pain? Losing a child in death, no explanation, however reasonable, will make the pain of that loss simply vanish. In Bible times, even men of great faith agonized over life’s unfair tragedies and asked God why he allowed such things. (Habakkuk 1:1-3). But there are answers in the Bible that with time can comfort us.
Know first that God did not want your daughter to die. God does not take delight even in the destruction of the wicked, let alone the death of a child. (2 Peter 3:9.) Surely, he is deeply pained when a child dies. After all, we feel the tragedy of death only because we are able to love, to feel for its victims. And we are able to love only because we are made in God’s image. We reflect God’s perfect ability to love, even though weakly at best. (Genesis 1:26; 1 John 4:8) The Bible assures us that God reads the deepest feelings of our hearts, has numbered the very hairs on our heads, knows it even when a sparrow falls from a tree. Thus, he is called “the Father of tender mercies.”—2 Corinthians 1:3; Matthew 10:29-31.
Clearly, then, God does not want any of his intelligent creatures to die. He purposes to end death, swallowing it up forever. (Isaiah 25:8) But if that is how he feels, why does he allow death in the meantime, particularly for children?
God allows children to die for the same reason that he allows adults to die. Death was Adam’s choice, not God’s. Even before Adam and Eve rebelled against their Creator in Eden, they both knew full well that God had set the death penalty for sin. If they had not chosen to be disloyal to God, they could still be alive today. But foolishly they threw away the most precious inheritance they could have passed on to their offspring—the right to perfect, eternal life on earth. Once they sinned, they were no longer perfect. All they could pass on to their offspring was sin and death.—Genesis 3:1-7; Romans 5:12.
But you may wonder: ‘Since the price was so high, why did God let Adam and Eve sin? Or why did he not crush their rebellion before they could pass death and misery on to their children—and our children?’
God allowed our first parents to disobey because he never intended to create a world of automatons, beings who serve God only because they are programmed to do so. Like any parent, God wanted his human children to obey him out of feelings of trust and love, not compulsion. He gave Adam and Eve ample reason to trust and love him, but they disobeyed and rejected his rulership anyway.—Genesis 1:28, 29; 2:15-17.
Why did God not execute the rebels right then and there? God had already stated his purpose that the earth should one day be fully inhabited by the offspring of Adam and Eve. He never fails to fulfill his purposes. (Isaiah 55:10, 11) But more important, a crucial question was raised in Eden. Does God have the right to rule over man, and is His way the best, or can man rule himself better?
The only just way to answer the question once and for all was to allow man to rule himself. History has answered the question grimly. The wretched results of human rule are all around us—a world in which the death of innocent children is commonplace, almost lost in a sea of other evils. If nothing else, six thousand years of human rule have proved this: The idea that man can rule himself without God is worse than a sad delusion; it is a gross lie. As long as man rules without God, man will live and die in pain.
Jehovah, the loving, righteous God, has a wiser choice. Much the way a parent will allow a beloved child to undergo a painful operation for the sake of the child’s happy and healthy future, God has allowed man to undergo the agony of self-rule for the sake of man’s eternal future. And just as the pain of an operation does not last forever, man-rule and its injustices are soon to end.
When God’s Kingdom rules without opposition over this earth, millions of children will be resurrected and welcomed back from the dead. Like the parents whose children Jesus resurrected back to life in the first century C.E., many then will be “beside themselves with great ecstasy.” (Mark 5:42; Luke 8:56; John 5:28, 29) And when all mankind is at last restored to the perfect state that Adam and Eve lost, then never again will anyone die—children included!—Revelation 21:3, 4.
At 2:29pm on November 2nd, 2009, Rev.James Durden said…
Hi Cassie,your hear will get stronger as the days go by but you'll still cry but cry as you may life will show you that you have not done anything wrong because you can not erase twenty-something yrs of love to a heart that breathed the same love that you breathed when their problem became your problem their tears are your tears your,when they can't rest these are things that can't & will not leave your mind & heart as each day you have the joy of seeing your child all over again the same character traits these things shall breathed new life into you.Pls take my advice because my Kisha was still a virgin @23 so I have only her love & that love my friend is a love that takes the place of two.so don't worry you'll cry cut each cry will bring peace as no one will understand but you'll begin to gain a peace in the midst of a storm and that peace no one can take.be blessed
At 6:57pm on October 30th, 2009, Rev.James Durden said…
Hi Cassie,God did not take Brittany as I explain to all ;it was a physical infirmity that took her, one of the many that attack out of no where many times we're not able to see what is incubating inside our bodies as to your child and mine, Kisha complained of a headche and before the emt's got there she was unconcious and never came back she had blood vessel to rupture.she had a brain tumor at age 5 they operated and she was watched till 18 then set free nothing for 6 yrs.after going for 18 yrs problem free, then tradegy, they said if we had been in the hospital when it happened nothing could have saved her.So Brittany's suddenly mishap is due to the growing problems that you nor I can see but God never takes he always receive as there are many instances as I shall names a few: He says in Jn.14:3 that If I go to prepare a place for you,I will come again and receive you to myself.When Stephen was stoned in (Acts:7:59b)Lord Jesus receive my spirit & also Precious is the death of his saints (Ps.116:15) as this is comfort knowing that we can begin without condemnation as our hearts are already heavy enough & the days are long and the nights longer as I hurt for you & the baby as I have a Minister friend her daughter passed from Lupus last year @ 22yrs. old and had a son 2yrs.old & I watched her dance & sing over her child & all we could do was cry & she has her grandson with her now all the time as her husband passed thr year before so I've stood &seen death rear its head so many times that I don't know what to do but I'm still staggered by the passing of my child just as I know you are but hang in there Love your grandchild with the love your daughter gave and you'll be blessed beyond measure.Love has so many blessings & Brittany is proof positive in that She Left a child that will be evident of her life .As for your other children you said you're close knit family I know that love has to be the key when you're clos because everybody can't make that claim as death often brings problems that you never saw so thank god once again & you do have victory in that Cassie had a physical infirmity that cropped up suddenly and took her life but God gave youvictory as he received her into glory and the devil is alie you will not go on worried as to what happened.Now the crying I say do it often becuase every time I start to write about my child I stat to cry 7 when I read others stories I cr even Jesus cried when he heard about Lazurus so cry my friend but know that your baby loves you and that's enough.talk with you soon.James
At 3:14pm on October 29th, 2009, Cassie said…
Hello everyone..my name is Cassie..my daughter's name is Brittany..in2008 she graduated from Point Park University..majoring in Criminal Justice..She worked for homeland security.Brittany had a baby girl on Holloween 2008..what a great mother she was..Brittany complained of a headache on 4-16 09..she died in my arms on 4-23 09..from AML..Acute Myoid Leukemia..which came out of no where..doesnot run in family..Brittany was never sick..but maybe a cold sometimes..im tryin 2 keep everybody sane..I cry all the time..Brittany has 2 brothers one with Spinal Bifida he is nineteen and the other one 34..Brittany is now 24 years old..her a baby will be one...Her neice is 13..we are a very close net family..I hope and prayI can find some understanding in all this..I pray each and everyday..GOD will be my victor..Thank you..Cassie..Brittany' mommy
 
 

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