Charles E. Nelson
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Charles E. Nelson commented on Kayla's group Gay and lesbians who have lost partners
"Hello James, I am so sorry for your loss of your beloved Mark. I lost my husband Larry two years ago April 22. Today I visited the plot where his ashes are interred for the first time in these two years, and was feeling quite emotional and unsettled…"
Thursday
Charles E. Nelson commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Marsha, I don't have words to express my shock and disgust at the comments made by your nephew - actually, I do, but they would be censored here. As you always know, and can see form all of our posts, you are loved and appreciated here by…"
Tuesday
Charles E. Nelson commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"  I’m here more than I am not…   Dear Larry,               Tomorrow it will be two years since you disappeared. Two years ago I too disappeared. I don’t know to…"
Apr 21
Charles E. Nelson commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Part 2 I’m sorry I didn’t do more to make you see the doctor when it all started – I’m sorry I wasn’t more there. I was frightened right from the first day you asked me to look at the sore on your ear, as if I knew it…"
Apr 21
Charles E. Nelson commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"                              Part 2 Dear Family,   Many of our family here are celebrating…"
Apr 14
Charles E. Nelson commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Jay, This month, having two anniversaries for you, will undoubtedly bring forth many emotions and tears - I'll be thinking of you and sending many prayers your way. Thank you for sharing the words your pastor kindly spoke to you. When I…"
Apr 6
Charles E. Nelson commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Mary Jane, You have just solved the problem of some of my own disappearing posts - thank you! I wrote something on page two this morning, then lost it completely. I will now try again on the first page. See, you're helping us all out…"
Apr 6
Charles E. Nelson commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hello Family, This is a rather poignant anniversary of sorts for me. Two years ago today Larry rushed me to the hospital where I was admitted to e ICU. It was questionable whether I would live. Seventeen days later I lost my sweet man, who passed…"
Apr 5
Charles E. Nelson commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Debbie, Larry and I were both confirmed smokers - I was since age 17, and was up to three packs a day when he came home from the doctor 20+ years ago and dropped a box of nicotine patches on the kitchen table. He had gone for treatment of his…"
Apr 4
Charles E. Nelson commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Marsha, I so hope that Tootsie's problem is easily treated, and you and she are in my prayers. Also I pray that your advisor finds some place to coax more funds for you - being "forced" to sell your home is never easy, but for us…"
Apr 4
Charles E. Nelson commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Mary Clough, Like everyone else here, I relate to your feelings of depression, and has been said several times already, no apologies necessary ever here with this family - we all know this pain as Roland so well expressed. Yesterday Steve and I…"
Apr 3
Charles E. Nelson commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hello Harold, My friend, I'm so glad your trip went well, and at the risk of repeating myself - I am so happy and proud at the way you are finding life worth living once more. You are amazing, and an inspiration to us all here...well done big…"
Mar 30
Charles E. Nelson commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hello Marsha, You are always one of my enthusiastic cheerleaders - thank you for always encouraging me to express myself - I feel as though I have a purpose and future because of you my sweet sister, and because of all my family here who make me…"
Mar 30
Charles E. Nelson commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hello Gretchen, Your photo most definitely brightens my day - thank you! I think Paul may be already telling you, through your daily thoughts about moving back to Ohio, that your dispersing his belongings however and whenever it feels right is what…"
Mar 30
Charles E. Nelson commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"           This writing I offer to my family as we all support each other in our daily struggles with our grief...especially to the newer members for whom your loss is so fresh and your pain  at…"
Mar 26
Charles E. Nelson commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Trina, I'm glad the song spoke to you as it did to me - Steve and I were watching the TV series "Six Feet Under" which Larry and I had bought on DVD, not having cable in the house. The series confronth death and grieving in all…"
Mar 26

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At 10:34am on March 25, 2017, Mary. Jane said…
Hi Chuck. I hope this works. I am still not familiar with my IPad...I was soooo happy with my XP...but then I had to get a new Windows 7.5 or 8 or whatever it was, and finally had to switch to wifi...(I knew it was just a way for Big Brother to watch you LOL...yes I am an x hippie...hope that doesn,t bother you. And, no, I could not afford an IPad..when Bob got sick, my daughters boss Bought me this! Her father had died of cancer, but she was able to FaceTime him across the miles b4 he died and she wanted to do the same for my daughter. Ironically he died the next day after it arrived and we never got to use it.
I am going to make each of my posts short so if I loose them here, I won,t have poured my heart out for nothing.
I HAVE to tell you why I chose YOU to befriend...it was your PICTURE! I am guessing that is you and Larry? I took one look at that picture and to me, it looked EXACTLY like one of those pictures that come with a frame you buy in the store. It was wonderful. Which person are u? You will have to excuse me if I get information wrong...I have a very hard time focusing on who is who. Steve is your new love, right?
You can swear all you want with me. I don,t care. Words only have power if u let them. Ok I am going to see if this posts..if it does, I will send u a second post about who I am than you for responding.
At 11:04pm on September 8, 2016, elyse said…
Chuck,Your message to Maureen was beautifully written as many as your posts are,but this one dated Sept.8 was most exceptional.
At 7:18pm on July 21, 2016, carol said…
Thank you for the kind words and the welcome into your group, This has been an extremely hard thing to go through, Again Thank you. Carol
At 11:26am on July 5, 2016, Sara Murphy said…

Hi Chuck.  Thinking about you.  Haven't seen any posts from you recently which has me worried.  I'm aware you have health issues but if you're able to, please check in.  I'm sending extra prayers your way.

Love Sara

At 8:16pm on July 4, 2016, Deb S said…

Chuck, Are you OK?  I haven't heard from you for a while and am concerned. Please check in when convenient.  Thanks.

Love, Deb

At 11:56am on May 25, 2016, elyse said…
Hello Chuck,I was wondering if you can answer one question,I'm not too familiar still with this site.
How do I get my"Blog post" to go back on top ? It dropped to bottom of my page.
thank you
At 3:32pm on April 27, 2016, elyse said…
Chuck,Sorry to hear of your losses as well,especially last April of your husband.We all share similar feelings and I'm glad that I've found this group,I can say whatever may be on my mind without judgment and even if no one responds,it's good to release it.Some people/ family don't know what to say so I usually respond with I'm ok when anyone asks.elyse sister of Lee 6/13/59-5/28/14.I posted on the main wall a suggestion of each member posting this at end,so we can send a remembrance to each other,I thought it was a nice gesture,what do you think?
At 6:05pm on April 24, 2016, Deb S said…

Chuck, Thank you for your thoughts on Friday. I felt them and did well!!  You are such a sweet friend.  I hope your today was better than your yesterday.  Love, Debbie

At 2:35pm on March 12, 2016, Sara Murphy said…

Chuck,  my new friend......As far as I'm concerned, you're just a man going through the same heartbreaking loss we all are.....the loss of our soulmates.  I too was apprehensive about posting on a forum such as this for the same reason,  how do you know what/who is real or fake.  I came to realize very quickly through the comments I read that we are all very real and offering helping hands to each other.

One of Ken's good friends is gay and has been with his partner for over 30 years.  They were lucky enough to get married a few years ago.   Ken and I would go out with them in the same way we would any other couple.  We would go to dinner,  walk around a lake near us, go out for an ice cream etc.  We would talk about the same things anybody else would.  It was of no concern to us what other people may have thought.  I want you to feel comfortable and safe here.  Love is love and that's it.  Gay or straight doesn't matter.....at least not to me.

Sara

At 3:52am on January 8, 2016, Marsha H said…

Dear Chuck ...

Just in case you need me to discuss something more personal with your grief here is my email:  Maday1@shaw.ca   Please, don't feel you need to email me as I know some people are very private and I would never be offended. 

Hugs

Marsha

 
 
 

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