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Hurting shared their blog post on Facebook
Jul 25, 2013
Hurting posted a status
"We have a group on the Facebook. If interested please click http://www.facebook.com/groups/Bereaved.Spouses/"
Jul 18, 2012
Tatjana Kowand replied to Hurting's discussion Still Missing in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Oh Kathleen....I am truly so sorry for your loss...I didn't have the same amount of time with my Soulmate and forever love, Michael, as you did with Wade...29 wonderful years...but I think we can all relate to the same pain and heartache and…"
Mar 8, 2012
Shannon replied to Hurting's discussion Still Missing in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Kathleen, thank you for that post. Your right I'm 2.5 months in and the pain is horrific but it is a bit easier than it was the first 2 weeks after he passed. I miss him everyday think about him all the time and I'm glad I do, my fear is…"
Mar 8, 2012
Tatjana Kowand replied to Hurting's discussion Still Missing in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Did you know he was going to leave?"
Mar 7, 2012
heather left a comment for Hurting
"dear hurting so much time has passed the months go on and on and I thought my pain would get better.  No it doesn't sometime being alone with my thoughts i turn to God and say why God do I have to feel like this? He says I was the strong…"
Oct 9, 2011
heather left a comment for Hurting
"dear hurting so much time has passed the months go on and on and I thought my pain would get better.  No it doesn't sometime being alone with my thoughts i turn to God and say why God do I have to feel like this? He says I was the strong…"
Oct 9, 2011
heather left a comment for Hurting
"thanks for getting back to me I still check in once in awhile and read the posting on Legacy.  It has been almost 10 months since I lost Jimmy he is missed so much I just have my routine everyday and try not to be depressed.  I'm on…"
Jan 10, 2011
Anita Ippolito replied to Hurting's discussion One Year......... in the group Bereaved Spouses
"I can totally relate to your feelings.  I lost my dear husband, suddenly, without a chance to say goodbye and that fact that it was the day before Christmas Eve made it so much worse.  It was 2 years on Dec.23rd and I really can say it…"
Jan 7, 2011
CINDY POWELL replied to Hurting's discussion One Year......... in the group Bereaved Spouses
"HURTING, JUST WANTED TO RESPOND TO THE QUESTION YOU KEEP ASKING YOURSELF, "WHY ME"? I ASK MYSELF THAT QUESTION EVERYDAY. I KNOW THAT GOD KNEW HOW MUCH I DEPENDED UPON MY HUSBAND, BUT APPARENTLY HE STILL SAW THE NEED TO TAKE MY HUSBAND. I…"
Jan 7, 2011
CINDY POWELL replied to Hurting's discussion One Year......... in the group Bereaved Spouses
"HURTING, JUST WANTED TO RESPOND TO THE QUESTION YOU KEEP ASKING YOURSELF, "WHY ME"? I ASK MYSELF THAT QUESTION EVERYDAY. I KNOW THAT GOD KNEW HOW MUCH I DEPENDED UPON MY HUSBAND, BUT APPARENTLY HE STILL SAW THE NEED TO TAKE MY HUSBAND. I…"
Jan 7, 2011
CINDY POWELL replied to Hurting's discussion One Year......... in the group Bereaved Spouses
"DEAR HURTING, I AM SO SORRY THAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH THIS DIFFICULT TIME. AT LEAST YOU FOUND THIS SITE TO COME TOO, KNOWING EVERYONE ON HERE UNDERSTANDS HOW YOU FEEL IF THAT IS ANY CONSOLATION. IN FEB. IT WILL BE A YEAR FOR ME, SINCE LOOSING MY…"
Jan 5, 2011
Christy replied to Hurting's discussion One Year......... in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Suzanne, thanks for your post. I don't mean to get all religious on anybody, it's just that I have been desperately seeking answers- why did this happen, where is he now- in heaven  or in the grave awaiting judgement? So, being…"
Jan 3, 2011
Christy replied to Hurting's discussion One Year......... in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Renee, I understandyour blank feelings- just nothing there, BUT I do not blame God, in fact He is the only one that brings me any comfort. I get mad when people say "God needed 1 more angel", or " He was too good to stay & God…"
Jan 3, 2011
Renee Semo replied to Hurting's discussion One Year......... in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Hurting, I understand just what you feel and say.  My husband died June 18, 2010 at Sloan Kettering of cancer.  They told me he would last a few days to a week and he was determined he wasnt going anywhere.  I was in the hospital…"
Jan 2, 2011
Christy replied to Hurting's discussion One Year......... in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Suzanne, I just read this post/reply. I feel so much like you do. I have lost 23 lbs in 4 months since Larry passed. I was overweight before, so it's not a problem. I fastedin the beginning because I was praying that Larry would be found alive…"
Dec 28, 2010

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Support Group on Facebook!

Posted on July 25, 2013 at 9:50pm 0 Comments

We have support group on Facebook for Bereaved spouses that was created approx three years ago.  We would like to invite new members to join us if you need to chat on one to one basis or you need some extra support.  Stick with Legacy connect because it's a tremendous help but if you need a bit more.  Come to us for that.  Hugs to all of you!https://www.facebook.com/groups/Bereaved.Spouses/

Fourteen Months...........................

Posted on February 23, 2011 at 7:40pm 0 Comments

They say there is a reason, They say that time will heal. 

But neither time nor reason Will change the way we feel.

For no one knows the heartache that lies behind our smiles.

No one knows how many times we have…

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Message from Hari

Posted on February 23, 2011 at 9:00am 0 Comments

Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free

I'm following the path God laid for me.

I took His hand when I heard him call;

I turned my back and left it all.

I could not stay another day,

To laugh, to love, to work or play.

Tasks left undone must stay that way;

I found that place at the close of the day.

If my parting has left a void,

Then fill it with remembered joy.

A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss;

Ah yes, these things, I too will miss.

Be not… Continue

Where Are You?

Posted on January 10, 2011 at 12:14am 0 Comments

Has anybody wondered what happens after death. I am hindu so in my religion there is reincarnation and if you have paid & collected all the debts then you go to the final stage where there is no more life cycle processes anymore. Now my questions are:



If this is just one cycle and his soul has left this life. Would my being miserable and sad keep on pulling him back?

Am I doing the right thing by pulling him back instead of letting him move forward?

The relationship… Continue

Forty Five Weeks!

Posted on October 27, 2010 at 3:33pm 2 Comments

Stop hurting O My Heart!


I'm Gone now,…

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At 2:55pm on October 8, 2011, heather said…

dear hurting so much time has passed the months go on and on and I thought my pain would get better.  No it doesn't sometime being alone with my thoughts i turn to God and say why God do I have to feel like this? He says I was the strong one to go on alone, but I don't feel that strong any one else feel like I do.  My grown children live their lives, I have great grandchildren I don't see that often and it hurts me too I'm hoping I truly meet someone someday to feel the gaps and hours to feel happiness again and love it may happen I hope it does.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

At 2:55pm on October 8, 2011, heather said…

dear hurting so much time has passed the months go on and on and I thought my pain would get better.  No it doesn't sometime being alone with my thoughts i turn to God and say why God do I have to feel like this? He says I was the strong one to go on alone, but I don't feel that strong any one else feel like I do.  My grown children live their lives, I have great grandchildren I don't see that often and it hurts me too I'm hoping I truly meet someone someday to feel the gaps and hours to feel happiness again and love it may happen I hope it does.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

At 12:13pm on January 10, 2011, heather said…
thanks for getting back to me I still check in once in awhile and read the posting on Legacy.  It has been almost 10 months since I lost Jimmy he is missed so much I just have my routine everyday and try not to be depressed.  I'm on oxygen and have my health problems I will be 62 next month.  The Holidays were tough for me I was all alone family had their Christmas's but I was left here by myself.  It seems I wasn't important at all to them.  I didn't have any presents to open except my youngest daughter gave me money by phone to get the ereader I was talking about I did appreciate her gift.  I've come to realize that happiness is within and I have to take care of myself and not depend on anyone else.  I hope so much you are happy too we have to go on with our lives God has a plan for everyone and I believe Jimmy is happy with God in heaven and he would want me to be happy.  Take care and write to me when you can you are special.
At 7:22pm on November 7, 2010, Basia said…
I wonder if we will count forever
At 10:46pm on October 27, 2010, Kimberley Pircio said…
Thank you! You have helped me more than you could ever imagine! I am so sorry for your loss! God Bless You! Kim
At 7:39am on October 10, 2010, heather said…
It's been a long six months although I'm crying a little less I still feel so empty inside. Everyday I long for a hug, a kiss, and seeing his beautiful green eyes they were amazing and I always saw love in his eyes. I am the disabled one on oxygen 24/7 he took care of me, watched over me and worried about me. So losing him on March 26th was the worst day of my life. I log on to the site to know others are grieving as I am God has a plan he is my strength but having support here helps too, God bless everyone and take care
At 10:11am on September 16, 2010, Basia said…
Hope you are ok , my fellow day counter.
Thinking of you and sending love and hugs.
At 7:49am on September 16, 2010, Fernandohulya said…
Hurting my son is refusing to talk at the moment but my daughter is starting to talk more about their Dad. It is still so raw that I burst into tears all day. I am starting counseling next Monday with an apparently good counselor. My son Lee is holding up the grieving process by not talking about Fernando and it makes me feel so useless because I thought we could talk about anything in this family. I will try and feel it he is the right person for me and if he is not then i will have to change to someone I am comfortable. To be honest maybe a counselor is not the best way to go for me but I am looking at other options such widows group(s)who have gone through the same situation as me. I think we got to try something once. Good to hear from you.
At 9:56am on September 12, 2010, Fernandohulya said…
I am not that good because Fernando's Birthday in 10 days. My daughters Birthday was yesterday. I am feeling very soar and depressed constantly crying. How things going for you? How is the family doing? I have made an appointment for a counsellor, just to try it it works?
At 4:06pm on August 25, 2010, Fernandohulya said…
Hurting, good to hear from you. I think family are so strange these days and to be honest family means for me the children and I. The amazing situation is that I have found another family who cares for me and that is this site, so family does not need to be blood related. That is a strange thing to say from your father in law for a 90 year old man, but did it make your stronger with the children that matters more. I wish could be there in person for you but maybe one day but it must have been amazing for you even though it is a shame he could not be there with you. You are so strong and thank you so much for the prayers.

with lots of hugs

yours truly

Hulya
 
 
 

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