Christine Blaire
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Christine Blaire commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Well, surgery will be Monday Jan.29.  In having a lumpectomy without chemo. . I'm still pondering radiation. The Dr. Was a bit upset cause she said this is "curable"  if I do chemo and radiation. . It's stage 2 triple…"
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Christine Blaire commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary Jane, how very fortunate you are!  Even if we never have an experience like you have had we should all be encouraged that we will be with our loved ones in heaven! Your experience gave me some peace! Thank you so much for sharing! I…"
Jan 12
Christine Blaire commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Oh David...you are so right in saying that it would be a godsend to see our loved ones as Mary Jane did! I would give anything in the world  just to know they are ok and waiting for us. It would make our having to wait so very much easier....if…"
Jan 10
Christine Blaire commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Steve,   thank you so much for posting this song. It made me cry but that's ok. It's been two months and this raw grief is so hard to b are. The 19 th of this month I will find out when I'm having breast surgery.…"
Jan 9
Christine Blaire commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary Jane that was beautiful and I guess I'm some kind of nut too....it's lightly snowing here and I just grabbed a shawl and went outside and listened and said a prayer for my Marshall and for everyone of us to be able to find some kind…"
Dec 24, 2017
Christine Blaire commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary Jane I too checked out that Facebook sight and it felt impersonal. I won't be going back to it. Took my car in for a tune up. He's a good mechanic and knew my husband so I won't get ripped off. If it's done too late tonight…"
Dec 23, 2017
Christine Blaire commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Well dear friends...one more test out of the way. The mri took 20 minutes. I had never had one before so on the 28 th I have the last test pet scan. So what I need to do it take a deep breath. It seems like the closer it gets to the end of the year…"
Dec 20, 2017
Christine Blaire commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"YES...I love this idea of posting on Christmas eve and New year's eve. My Marshall did karaoke and was a Dj and we always had a show on new years so this will be very hard. I have a 4 1/2 lb. Yorkie mix and she is so much company. As I laid on…"
Dec 18, 2017
Christine Blaire commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Ok friends I'm in panic mode! Went to Dr and she changed my antidepressants and increased the ativan. Next weds. Is mri and not nervous about that. I feel like running and screaming. And I know it's not even one day but one minute at a…"
Dec 15, 2017
Christine Blaire commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear friends..... Went a.nd saw surgeon. It's stage two aggressive cancer. They don't feel it's gone anywhere else so they are going to do Mir and pet scan. She said with chemo,radiation,and surgery it is curable.I told her no do the…"
Dec 12, 2017
Christine Blaire commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear friends..... Went a.nd saw surgeon. It's stage two aggressive cancer. They don't feel it's gone anywhere else so they are going to do Mir and pet scan. She said with chemo,radiation,and surgery it is curable.I told her no do the…"
Dec 11, 2017
Christine Blaire commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Well dear friends....had the biopsy, Dr called me in.  Yes I have breast cancer  Previously I had told her no treatments a lumpectomy was suggested where they only take out the lump no radiation or chemo. The mammogram and chest crazy and…"
Dec 8, 2017
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Dec 6, 2017
Christine Blaire commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear David, Mary Jane, etc. I've hit a low...Friday was invited out by my brother in law and sister-in-law. Did my nails, that's as far as I got. Last night I was supposed to go out with my daughter and her gentleman friend, didn't…"
Dec 3, 2017
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Nov 30, 2017
Christine Blaire commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Chuck, Deborah, David,Marsha, Mary Jane I want you all to know that I'm not upset or put off by anything that you've said to me. I appreciate your concern and I know that you are speaking from the heart. I will talk to this Dr on…"
Nov 30, 2017

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At 9:57pm on November 21, 2017, David Heggi said…

Oh Chris,
Please don't do this. Even I believe there has to be something better for us. I see myself in your heartache. sometimes I am so helpless in my own world of hurt I think that I can't possibly be of help to anyone else. But I have to; it is the mandate of every caring human being. Please wait this out a little longer. My baby sisters name was Chris. I raised her from infancy as our father was physically abusive and beat up my mother and us every night.
She too did not see any reason to continue and so did not take care of herself. She died more than 2 years ago, leaving huge holes in all of our hearts. It was a tragic unfinished life that I do not want to see in my commitment as a friend to you. She was only 53.
Please wait it out a little longer. maybe we will both look back on this and know what the purpose of our suffering was. I couldn't go to bed tonight knowing of your unbearable pain and not try to comfort you. Let me be your bridge over troubled waters.
Love and Hugs,
David H

At 5:02pm on November 21, 2017, David Heggi said…

Dear Christine,

I read your message.  It broke my heart as I am in the same place.  I'm 67 and don't feel I have 2 minutes more, let alone years. My well-meaning family and friends have said all the words that, for all practical purposes, feel like just more crap.  It might be OK, and even normal to be cynical in this stage of our grief - after all, how can anyone understand.?

I have pills too, and even a stash, but not for a plan to end my life; I believe that it will come naturally of a broken heart. Still, I want you to hang on.  Like what a therapist asked me many years ago " Don't you want to at least see how this (my life) all plays out?" I didn't have an answer, I couldn't have - the now was too critical for any kind of reflection, any luxury of time that everyone else seemed to have.  Be my friend in this, Christine;  we will try together. OK?

Hugs 

David H

 
 
 

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