I'm sorry to hear of your difficulties with your mother. My parents were always like a team and supported each other. I wish there was something that can be said but I can't think of anything. Losing my father was so traumatic I couldn't imagine a loved one piling on like that. Hold close the loved ones that are dear to you. Best Wishes
This was the last picture that was taken of my mom, she passed away from breast cancer which had spread to her lungs. In the picture is my oldest brother and myself with mommy. I have 3 brothers, I was the only girl. My mom was such a great person, she would help anyone no matter what they might have done to her, and in alot of ways I'm like her.
I wish we could understand how our parents act, but we can't. Just don't let that destroy who u are and how u want to be in life. I say this to u only because I want people to have a heart and care for one another. Did they have a bad relationship? I'm sorry, I don't mean to ask alot of questions, but I try to see the whole story. Do u have kids? I have 2. My daughter will be will be 19 the 21st of Feb. and a son that will be 13 the 17th of Feb. I have a ex-husband and I could not have acted like that with my daugher, and believe me he's not been the best in the world with me with our daughter. But hes still her daddy and she loves him and that's how it should be, and a mom is suppose to be there for their kids. I hope I can help if only to listen.
I do understand my mom passed Dec.13, 2009. My daddy had no problems going on with his life unlike myself. Sept.11,2010 I found my father-in-law dead on his kitchen floor, so I can understand exactly what u r going threw. He had 8 kids and none would or wanted to help him not even my husband. I was the one that stepped up to help him. The last 2 1/2 yrs. has been so hard and no one understands who and why u feel the way u do. But I do. My dad got another woman within 2 months of my moms death. Mom and dad had been married for 46 yrs. I still don't understand him, but that is a whole other book. If i can help u please let me know or if u just need someone to listen I will be here. I know your mom done u very wrong but do u think it was hurt and that was the only way she could deal with his death? Please don't think I'm taken her side I just hope u can look at every angle.