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Christy left a comment for Connie

"Dear Connie, I read your post to Suzanne regarding loniless, lack of sleep,... and it sounded as if you were talking about me. It's bad enough for just one of us to be existing like this, but to know there are so many others who feel the same…"

Mar 16, 2011

CINDY POWELL left a comment for Connie

"connie, i dont think i have ever written to you but maybe i have i am not sure. i have been on this site since may 2010.i lost my husband feb 26th 2010 and it will soon be a year. i just wanted to let you know that reading all the postings as i do…"

Feb 15, 2011

Carol Kayser left a comment for Connie

"Hello Connie, I am one of those new people having lost my dear husband John last August. I just wanted to say that I do exactly the same thing - stand and talk to my husband's pictures, tell him when I am struggling, give him a kiss and…"

Jan 18, 2011

Mary Ellen left a comment for Connie

"HI CONNIE HAS BEEN AWHILE SINCE I BEEN ON THIS SITE ..STILL DONT GET IT .BUR THAN YOU FOR YOUR RESPONCE ... C HOPE QLL IS GOING OK W/YOU ..HUGS ..M.E."

Nov 9, 2010

Mary Ellen left a comment for Connie

"HI CONNIE HAS BEEN AWHILE SINCE I BEEN ON THIS SITE ..STILL DONT GET IT .BUR THAN YOU FOR YOUR RESPONCE ... C HOPE QLL IS GOING OK W/YOU ..HUGS ..M.E."

Nov 9, 2010

Michele left a comment for Connie

"thank you connie for your response, i can't seem to do much more than exist day to day also. if it weren't for myboys and my mom i doubt i would still be around. i sure wish there was a way to talk with someone who has passed on, there are…"

Nov 2, 2010

Michele left a comment for Connie

"sorry....continued: a divorce isn't even close. what an insensitive, callous thing to say to someone at a time of such overwhelming pain! i'd like to give the dumba** woman the benefit of the doubt and hope she was just trying to let her…"

Oct 1, 2010

Michele left a comment for Connie

"connie, iagree with you about coming right out and telling someone when they say they know how you feel or they give suggestions on how to go on and all that b.s. there is not a soul out there who knows how it feels because we all deal with death…"

Oct 1, 2010

Randolph L. Schrader left a comment for Connie

"Thank you Coniie, had a great day for awhile, first time in 17 months. Seems like there is always a hurdle. Then you have reality. Hugs to you. Hugs are good."

Sep 16, 2010

Debbie Treadway left a comment for Connie

"Thank you Connie. I am so sorry for your loss also. I agree that the nights seem the worst. So long and lonesome. I am so glad I found this group. Hope you rest tonight. Hugs to you."

Sep 7, 2010

Randolph L. Schrader left a comment for Connie

"Hi Connie, you can dump on me anytime. Enjoy your vacation to Fla. Yes, I guess this is the price we pay for having a terrific life with our spouse. I didnt realize what would happen when it was over.With all of the things now missing,…"

Aug 23, 2010

Randolph L. Schrader left a comment for Connie

"Thank you Connie, am thinking of you. Hope you have a nice weekend. Things cant possibly get worse but they are hitting me one after another. Am so tired and worn out.Hugs to you.Hugs are good."

Aug 20, 2010

Randolph L. Schrader left a comment for Connie

"Thank you Connie, am thinking of you. Hope you have a nice weekend. Things cant possibly get worse but they are hitting me one after another. Am so tired and worn out.Hugs to you.Hugs are good."

Aug 20, 2010

Randolph L. Schrader left a comment for Connie

"Hi Connie, no good news on the car, The sub frame bar that goes to the right wheel is rusted bad. Cannot be fixed. Its likely to break off anytime.Sorry your time ended badly for you. But anyway, hugs to you.Hugs are good."

Aug 20, 2010

Randolph L. Schrader left a comment for Connie

"Hi Connie, long time no see. Been thinking about you. How you hanging in there my friend? Yes, am sad but what else is new. I have been cranky and looking for trouble lately. I guess the stress is getting to me. Have to find out about my car…"

Aug 16, 2010

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At 9:05pm on August 6, 2011, Suzanne said…: Hi Connie,

I don't know if you check on here at all but I wanted to let you know I am still here, still praying for you and that you are still in my thoughts. I pray that you are doing as well as you can. When I get a chance, I'll give you a call. I've been isolating a lot, but still check on these support groups. Take care.

God bless,

Suzanne

At 8:10am on March 16, 2011, Christy said…: Dear Connie,
I read your post to Suzanne regarding loniless, lack of sleep,... and it sounded as if you were talking about me. It's bad enough for just one of us to be existing like this, but to know there are so many others who feel the same way is ??? No words, just prayers for you & me and all of us here. I hope you find some peace today. Know this- love lasts forever & his love will remain with you just as your love is with him. HUGS, Christy

At 10:15pm on February 28, 2011, Suzanne said…: Hi Connie,

You mentioned before about getting in touch with you. In case I need to, is the last 4 #s of your phone 9455? If you wouldn't mind letting me know, I thank you for always giving me messages that make me feel validated. You always have words of comfort and no one in my life seems to really understand with a few expections. You are always so understanding.

God bless you,

Suzanne

At 6:43pm on February 15, 2011, CINDY POWELL said…: connie, i dont think i have ever written to you but maybe i have i am not sure. i have been on this site since may 2010.i lost my husband feb 26th 2010 and it will soon be a year. i just wanted to let you know that reading all the postings as i do and have been now for awhile i feel a connection to you and suzanne because it sounds like we are all feeling the same way. i use to try and post more often but i now feel like since i am still feeling so very bad that my postings are not positive enough for the new people. i feel like people might be judging me because it has almost been a year. the sad thing is i think i am having a harder time now than i was in the beginning. well connie i just wanted to touch basis with you to let you know i feel a connection with you. may GOD give you strength and courage as each day goes by.

At 10:29pm on February 13, 2011, Randolph L. Schrader said…: Hi Connie, thank you for your kind thoughts. Virginia and I are doing okay. We are continuing on together and we both share the ultimate loss of our spouses. We will never forget them. Hang in there girl.I wish the best for you and always think of our friends on this site. Hugs to you. Hugs are good.

At 10:26pm on January 24, 2011, Randolph L. Schrader said…: Hi Connie, I am sorry for taking so long to answer your kind message. I hope all is going well for you and I know you are hanging in there. I havent been posting for quite awhile. Its hard to post alot of times. Virginia and I are moving along in our lives together. We both know that our loved ones will always be remembered and talked about. We share in the ultimate devistation that has befallen upon us and that there can only be love and companionship and caring with no secrets. I care soo much about all of us who are on the grief site and wish there was a "magic wand". Hugs to you. Hugs are good.

At 10:26pm on January 24, 2011, Randolph L. Schrader said…: Hi Connie, I am sorry for taking so long to answer your kind message. I hope all is going well for you and I know you are hanging in there. I havent been posting for quite awhile. Its hard to post alot of times. Virginia and I are moving along in our lives together. We both know that our loved ones will always be remembered and talked about. We share in the ultimate devistation that has befallen upon us and that there can only be love and companionship and caring with no secrets. I care soo much about all of us who are on the grief site and wish there was a "magic wand". Hugs to you. Hugs are good.

At 9:49pm on January 18, 2011, Carol Kayser said…: Hello Connie, I am one of those new people having lost my dear husband John last August. I just wanted to say that I do exactly the same thing - stand and talk to my husband's pictures, tell him when I am struggling, give him a kiss and say goodnight, it is my way too of being close to him. A friend of mine (we both do a ton of reading, metaphysical and spiritual) says that when we talk to our loved ones it strengthens the love and the mind connection and they can hear us:) I love that.

It is taking everything one day at a time and dwelling in the continued love that surrounds us:)

Carol

At 9:30pm on January 18, 2011, Suzanne said…: Hi Connie,

I wanted to let you know that you really helped me more than you know. Thank you so much because I feel the same way as you with everything you said, and lately I feel when I share, I'm either feeling like I'm in the way of others healing process or outnumbered by those who don't believe the same way I do, that we must go through the feelings even if their negative. Anyway, I keep you in my prayers. I know it is hard.

God bless,

Suzanne

At 11:14pm on November 9, 2010, Mary Ellen said…: HI CONNIE HAS BEEN AWHILE SINCE I BEEN ON THIS SITE ..STILL DONT GET IT .BUR THAN YOU FOR YOUR RESPONCE ... C HOPE QLL IS GOING OK W/YOU ..HUGS ..M.E.