Hi Connie,

I don't know if you check on here at all but I wanted to let you know I am still here, still praying for you and that you are still in my thoughts.  I pray that you are doing as well as you can.  When I get a chance, I'll give you a call.  I've been isolating a lot, but still check on these support groups.  Take care.

God bless,

Suzanne

 

Dear Connie,
I read your post to Suzanne regarding loniless, lack of sleep,... and it sounded as if you were talking about me. It's bad enough for just one of us to be existing like this, but to know there are so many others who feel the same way is ??? No words, just prayers for you & me and all of us here. I hope you find some peace today. Know this- love lasts forever & his love will remain with you just as your love is with him. HUGS, Christy

Hi Connie,

You mentioned before about getting in touch with you.  In case I need to, is the last 4 #s of your phone 9455?  If you wouldn't mind letting me know, I thank you for always giving me messages that make me feel validated.  You always have words of comfort and no one in my life seems to really understand with a few expections.  You are always so understanding.

God bless you,

Suzanne

connie, i dont think i have ever written to you but maybe i have i am not sure. i have been on this site since may 2010.i lost my husband feb 26th 2010 and it will soon be a year. i just wanted to let you know that reading all the postings as i do and have been now for awhile i feel a connection to you and suzanne because it sounds like we are all feeling the same way. i use to try and post more often but i now feel like since i am still feeling so very bad that my postings are not positive enough for the new people. i feel like people might be judging me because it has almost been a year. the sad thing is i think i am having a harder time now than i was in the beginning. well connie i just wanted to touch basis with you to let you know i feel a connection with you. may GOD give you strength and courage as each day goes by.

Hi Connie, thank you for your kind thoughts. Virginia and I are doing okay. We are continuing on together and we both share the ultimate loss of our spouses. We will never forget them. Hang in there girl.I wish the best for you and always think of our friends on this site. Hugs to you. Hugs are good.

Hi Connie, I am sorry for taking so long to answer your kind message. I hope all is going well for you and I know you are hanging in there. I havent been posting for quite awhile. Its hard to post alot of times. Virginia and I are moving along in our lives together. We both know that our loved ones will always be remembered and talked about. We share in the ultimate devistation that has befallen upon us and that there can only be love and companionship and caring with no secrets. I care soo much about all of us who are on the grief site and wish there was a "magic wand". Hugs to you. Hugs are good.

Hi Connie, I am sorry for taking so long to answer your kind message. I hope all is going well for you and I know you are hanging in there. I havent been posting for quite awhile. Its hard to post alot of times. Virginia and I are moving along in our lives together. We both know that our loved ones will always be remembered and talked about. We share in the ultimate devistation that has befallen upon us and that there can only be love and companionship and caring with no secrets. I care soo much about all of us who are on the grief site and wish there was a "magic wand". Hugs to you. Hugs are good.

Hello Connie, I am one of those new people having lost my dear husband John last August.  I just wanted to say that I do exactly the same thing - stand and talk to my husband's pictures, tell him when I am struggling, give him a kiss and say goodnight, it is my way too of being close to him.  A friend of mine (we both do a ton of reading, metaphysical and spiritual) says that when we talk to our loved ones it strengthens the love and the mind connection and they can hear us:) I love that.

 

It is taking everything one day at a time and dwelling in the continued love that surrounds us:)

Carol

Hi Connie,

I wanted to let you know that you really helped me more than you know.  Thank you so much because I feel the same way as you with everything you said, and lately I feel when I share, I'm either feeling like I'm in the way of others healing process or outnumbered by those who don't believe the same way I do, that we must go through the feelings even if their negative.  Anyway, I keep you in my prayers.  I know it is hard.

God bless,

Suzanne