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David Heggi replied to Danny N's discussion Suddenly gone, my Ben in the group Gay and lesbians who have lost partners
"I am so sorry for your loss, Rad. I'm glad that you can read his messages and listen to his voicemail and have moved along and rediscovered a belief in love. It's only been a few months since my lost. Your journey gives me hope. Bless you.…"
Nov 11
David Heggi replied to Danny N's discussion Suddenly gone, my Ben in the group Gay and lesbians who have lost partners
"I lost my partner of 35 years Sept 2017. I surely can relate to your struggle - it hits at certain times of the day, and certain things, little things trigger IT, the grief. And you don't know how in Heaven you can survive it. but I do know in…"
Nov 11
David Heggi replied to Danny N's discussion Suddenly gone, my Ben in the group Gay and lesbians who have lost partners
"I understand: I miss my loved one every moment I am awake - yes esp in the morning when I have to realize yet again that he is gone - I don't want to go to sleep. He would always say that he loved me before he went to bed. and I would respond…"
Nov 11
Rad replied to Danny N's discussion Suddenly gone, my Ben in the group Gay and lesbians who have lost partners
"Hi Danny, Deepest condolences to you and I am truly sorry for your lost. My very first guy I dated died in a fatal car accident too on Dec 3st, 2015. I was so upset and lost, but I know that I have to move on. I still read his messages every…"
Jun 1
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May 12
H43 replied to Danny N's discussion Suddenly gone, my Ben in the group Gay and lesbians who have lost partners
"I'm so sorry for your loss. My partner of 10 years also died in a fatal car crash just this year. My life is a struggle. Please respond. Would love to connect with you. "
Apr 27
Robert Davis replied to Danny N's discussion Suddenly gone, my Ben in the group Gay and lesbians who have lost partners
"That is a wonderful saying. Thank you for sharing it.  I totally agree with it. I'm very glad you both had each other in the time that you did. Cloud Atlas is another good one too. I hope you have a good Friday. "
Jun 24, 2016
Danny N replied to Danny N's discussion Suddenly gone, my Ben in the group Gay and lesbians who have lost partners
"Yes, the driving around our area and every store/restaurant has a specific memory. It's little things like this store down our street he loved. He bought a small little canvas placard that says "You're a star.. shine on." He…"
Jun 24, 2016
Danny N replied to Danny N's discussion Suddenly gone, my Ben in the group Gay and lesbians who have lost partners
"Thank you Richard and I'm sorry about your loss. I'm hoping to get to the level of living my new normal life without Ben. As much as it hurts now, It is dark right now, but I'm grateful I found a place like this to share his and my…"
Jun 24, 2016
Danny N replied to Danny N's discussion Suddenly gone, my Ben in the group Gay and lesbians who have lost partners
"Thank you Robert. I'm definitely riding the waves. The past couple of days were the first since Ben passed that I tried to stay busy. It's good for a few hours and then (good) memories strike me and I start crying. I will look for that…"
Jun 23, 2016
Shane Clements replied to Danny N's discussion Suddenly gone, my Ben in the group Gay and lesbians who have lost partners
"I know exactly what you mean, for so long i would pass a specific store and remember us shopping for Christmas lights and ornaments and would have a panic attack or our favorite restaurant. Those feekungs are rea and raw and thank goodness I had a…"
Jun 23, 2016
Danny N replied to Danny N's discussion Suddenly gone, my Ben in the group Gay and lesbians who have lost partners
"Thank you Shane and I'm sorry about your loss. I'm normally a very quiet person and seldom reach out to people, even friends and family. I do have a group of friends I can talk to so I'm learning to gradually reach out more. I've…"
Jun 23, 2016
Richard Turner replied to Danny N's discussion Suddenly gone, my Ben in the group Gay and lesbians who have lost partners
"So sorry about your loss, Danny.  Words don't really express what you're going through, nor what you will go through.  Shane's right, it does get better; I lost my partner in 2013, and it seemed like the world was on hold;…"
Jun 23, 2016
Robert Davis replied to Danny N's discussion Suddenly gone, my Ben in the group Gay and lesbians who have lost partners
"I'm very sorry to hear Danny. Those emotions are going to hit like you said, all at once, and then sometimes in slower stages. Ride the waves when it happens, holding onto that life preserver that is Ben...those things that are good and kind…"
Jun 23, 2016
Shane Clements replied to Danny N's discussion Suddenly gone, my Ben in the group Gay and lesbians who have lost partners
"Dear Danny I am so sorry to hear of Bens sudden passing. My partner of 26 years passed in 2013 and im here to tell you that although the hurt and emptyness will never fully go away but with tume it does get better, Stay strong and keep a close…"
Jun 23, 2016
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Suddenly gone, my Ben

Hi Everyone,I'm thankful to have found a space like this where I can share my story.Today marks the second week I've been grieving over my fiancee, Ben. I turned 30 this year and he turned 38. We've been together for 7 years, but written to one another months before we started dating. He was my first long-term relationship and the only one I've said "I love you" to.  He was in a fatal car crash two weeks ago. He was on the other side of the country visiting his mom who he hadn't seen in a few…See More
Jun 23, 2016

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