Sorry I haven't written back. But he was in a hit and run accident while on his way to pick up our oldest son from a friends house. It was 2 days before the new school year started for our boys. He had just came home from taking 2 of the 3 school shopping, then our oldest called and he wanted to stay the night. I wanted him home so we can figure out what he needed for school. So my husband left the house to go pick him up, my son called and asked if dad was coming to get him.. I said he isn't there yet.. So at that time I knew something was wrong.
Not sure, Deborah, how you mean "involved." My husband was killed in an accident, but I was at home. He was riding his bicycle and was struck by a car on a sunny Sunday morning this past September. I awoke to an empty house, called his cell phone, and it was answered by a police detective who told me there had been "an accident." He died on the scene. So, I was spared seeing what happened, but realized my Steve died without my being near him.