Lost my mom this last April. She had lung cancer that spread to her her brain, but that wasn't really what she died from. She got pnemonia in the rehab center where she was at to get her strenght back. She ended up going in the hospital and the dr. put her on massive antibiotics that damaged her kidneys. Her kidneys started shutting down and I convinced my dad to bring her home. He was willing to put her on dialysis, but he and I knew she wouldn't of wanted that. They were together 48 years married 46. My sister died in 2007 of lung cancer that also spread to her brain and then her bones. It's just my dad and I now. I worry every day about him..... he is just a lost soul. I worry about his health, because he too had lung cancer, but was lucky enough to have the kind that was operatable and had part of his lung removed. I was told I have to live my own life; I have two children a husband, and my nephew; my sisters boy living with me. Also two great nieces. Like a lot of grieving people say; people just want you to be ok, and you try to be for them. Each day is different, but I am sure it will get better......hopefully. Thx for listening