DEAR FRIENDS: YOUR ALL WELCOME FOR MY COMMENTS, HAVING GONE THRU 6 YEARS OF GRIEF, AND COME OUT ON THE OTHER SIDE, I HOPE I CAN GIVE COMFORT TO YOU WHO ARE HAVING A HARD TIME, IM NOT SURE IF I MENTIONED HERE ABOUT "THE BLANKETS" GET TWO BLANKETS QUILTS ARE BEST AND WHEN YOUR ARE HAVING YOUR CRYING TIME WRAP YOURSELF UP TIGHT AS IF IT IS YOUR LOVED ONE IS HOLDING YOU AND LET YOUR TEARS FLOW, THIS WORKED FOR ME, AFTER MY HUSBAND DIED I TALKED TO HIM AND A VOICE TALKED BACK" ut o"
LOL! BUT IT SURE GOT ME THRU SOME TUFF TIMES, MAYBE IM INSANE AND I DONT CARE BECAUSE IT'S MY COMFORT..I HOPE YOU ALL HAVE FAITH IT HELPED ME SO MUCH. I READ THESE MEMORIES OF YOUR LOVED ONES AND WHEN I GO TO BED I DO PRAY FOR ALL OF YOU, YOU HAVE ALL TOUCHED MY LIFE AND I LOVE YOU DEARLY, I NOT A WEIRDO EM WELL,LOL! MY HUSBAND WAS A PEACE OFFICER SO I HAVE A CLEAN RECORD. STAY IN TOUCH, IM HERE IF YOU NEED TO TALK.....one foot in front of the other..lv and "Blessings to all
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dearest Dixie, I read where you talk of how the time was not enough for you, same here! my beloved Barry was to retire this year and passed last spring and it breaks my heart, he never got a chance to just be a retiree. He was the most caring professor and man I have ever met. He was an anthropology professor and his specialty was “Understanding other’s suffering and trying to feel from their point of view” and he was so genuine I feel so much loss and even anger that we never go to to explore this time of life together. He lived his whole life for others and then he passed! Makes no sense to me. I also talk to Barry as you talk to your beloved..You are not a wierdo honey! Grief is horribly painful and is very confusing too. I think what helps me is focusing on how the Bible says that “LOVE ENDURES ALL THINGS” AND THAT NOTHING CAN SEPERATE US FROM THE LOVE OF GOD” AND how Barry is with God. And he is okay. It’s me who is a basket case!!
AND then the longing for them is a whole other layer, issnt it>??? the missing them!!!!! and noone else will do! Barry was so much fun too. He was so caring for me with my chronic illness and now I must bear it alone. I feel selifsh at times because i need him so much. I keep his picture close to mey bedside and on my phone and wear his perfume to feel close and it helps.
I have never tried wrapping myself in a quilt but it sounds like a good idea a bout now. I miss him so much I feel I will go crazy!! and its a hard time because those around us expect us to “GO ON” just LIKE THAT! when someone is so much part of our being, we long for that missing part and it makes no logical sense to us.
Please honey, stay strong for your beloved. And thank you for helping us here too.
blessings and gentle hugs, Vee, Colorado
Concilia looks to be on a fishing expedition, the exact message you received was sent to me and 34 pages of other people. It contains nothing specific to any of the recipient's profile and has nothing appropriate to the Grief support group. Do-not send emails to her, your email address or any other information that could be used for fraud. I'm looking into how to report this person.
If you Emailed her directly at her yahoo.com email address, please contact Legacy. Unfortunately the only method I've found to
do so is sending an Email to email@example.com
as shown in the box in the upper left of the "main" page in the tabs at the top of this page.
I'm sorry if my message is blunt poorly worded and disturbed you. I needed to get something done quickly. In a few minutes, I've received two replies showing that the message was sent to many people.
I put a message up on Concilia's wall and sent an Email to Legacy. I don't know how long it might take for them to respond.
This appears to be a variation on the a classic e-mail scams, "you have money" or " I need help.." but targeted to a very venerable group. I has the tell tails of internet scams, comes from a foreign country from a non native english speaker. Being in a foreign country makes prosecution or recovery of assets impassable.
The original message looks to have been written in Spanish then translated by a translation computer program and not edited by someone who speaks any english at all.
I don't want someone to be taken advantage of.