Donna Hi, my husband left on December 23, 2009. I know this site has and is still helping me a lot. We also have facebook link that you can see on my page. I didn't see any of your discussion so probably you have deleted it. Problem is we all are in different stages of grief here. When I joined I was very lucky to find lot of people responding back right away. I even managed to chat with them at facebook. You can message me and I will try my best to respond to you. If you feel like write about yourself and we will all respond. Take care.
I have been on this site for 7 months now, on and off again. Honestly sometimes I don't know what to say to people so I do not post much. I have no words of wisdom to give anyone, but wish I did. I hope you give this site another chance because there are many caring people here. Anytime you want to talk I am here. Hugs to you!
I'm sorry you have felt we weren't here for you. Sometimes different discussions and things go to different places so they are hard to find. I actually looked for some writings of yours and it must have been awhile as I find nothing. So sorry. I do hope you are getting thru the days okay. You are still in the difficult months so I do hope you are finding help somewhere since its not working for you here. Take care of yourself