Hi dorald I am so sorry for our losses I lost my baby boy also. and have been sadder than anyone can imagine. it sucks beyond belief. hope you are doing ok. we are on this long journey of life without our beautiful boys. love to you carrie L
Remember your daughter is 16 and they all hate us at that age, I think that is one reason why my husband is having such a hard time him and jonathan fought all the time. He was very hard on all of our children he's a prison guard and is use to giving orders and Jonathan didn't like to take orders from anyone. He came home one day his junior year and said he was going to join the service i just laughed he got so angry at me, he thought I was laughing that he wasn't good enough to serve his country but like I told him i want to see him in bootcamp the first time a sargeant screams at him he's going to tell him to ___ off and get kicked out, we had a hard time for awhile after that but when he turned 17 and had to get a job and start paying for his own insurance he started appreciating what we did for him more, give her time, trying talking or counseling, are you a single mother or do you have someone that can help you with her?
My loss is so new I don't even know what 5 years is going to feel like my son died november 19, 2010 his 18th birthday is feb 9th i am going to celebrate by having him a memorial 18th birthday party its on a wednesday and people are saying have it on a weekend more people can come what they don't understand this is for me to my son and that is what tomorrow should be for you, whatever gets you thru it for you i want to celebrate the day my son was born and i will do something for the day he left this world until the day i die it might just get a baloon and look up at the sky and tell him how much i miss him or a party who knows we all do what we have to do and don't let no one else tell you any different.