Please accept my sincere condolences for the loss of your precious sons. I saw a post to you from Elyse of latest conversation. I thought I'd post on your wall and welcome you at this time. I had only one child my son Joe who was killed by a drunk driver 2010 just 6 years ago after Easter dinner with me and his dad. He was on his motorcycle because I later learned the battery in his car wasn't working plus my mother decided to cook chicken and was too tired to come to dinner. Normally I welcome new people on "Loss of a Child." Sometimes on other groups too. I can understand what you are saying about your son Andrew graduating with a promising future. It was the same with my son Joe. He had received his Master's Degree in accounting and finance a couple months before. There is a member I recall from being on "Loss of a Child" that had 3 daughters and two of them passed. I'm glad that you have a daughter. The other day a friend of mine told me about "Compassionate Friends" where she's attended for the loss of her daughter. If you haven't joined "Loss of a Child" then you may want to do that. If you want to talk just click on my name and I'll get back to you.
Douglas,I am so sorry to hear of your loss.I can't imagine the sorrow you feel with not one child but two.Your daughter also must be going through the same pain as well with losing two brothers.Besides this online group,I've been going for a year now to a " Compassionate Friends " meetings.Their phone number is toll free (877) 969-0010.They are for Parents,Grandparents and Siblings.The truly are compassionate.And,on this site you can join a group / make a comment.Just go to top of page to "community",select: find a support group,click on groups you want to join,write a comment and join w/others for support.Hope this helps.Elyse,sister of Lee 5/28/14.