Elaine, I just read your post and my heart stop beating. We had the same problem with a dr. prescribing my husband amiodaron and my husband had lung cancer to make a very long story short I threw this DR out of my husband's room and told the nurses NEVER to allow him back into the room. My husband experienced shortness of breath and chest pains he became severely ill & since I monitored everything I nailed his problem to that medication. Once he was off of the meds he returned back to his normal. The Dr and I had a yelling match and he was out. I am so sorry you too had to go through this. There are many Dr. I hate for what they did or did not do for my husband and I understand your bitterness. They keep their practice and we move on alone. I will keep you in my prayers.
Thank you, Thank you, your words bring met comfort and I appreciate them. It feels like I am not really here. I am going through doing things trying to handle things, but I just want to crawl in bed, cover my head and cry myself to sleep, and hope when I do wake up this nightmare will be over, but I know it won't. I know people mean well but I cannot handle another person asking me am I all right. I agree with you I am ready to sock them also. Again thank you Elaine God Bless and Im keeping you in my prayers.
I'm having some better days. But yesterday my Stepfather passed away. Now my Mom is alone like me. We lost our husbands 5 months apart. I prayed every day that he would get better so my Mom could have her life back and maybe I could start to rebuild mine. Making all the arrangements for him has brought back the hard tears. Why is life being so hard.
I'm having some better days. But yesterday my Stepfather passed away. Now my Mom is alone like me. We lost our husbands 5 months apart. I prayed every day that he would get better so my Mom could have her life back and maybe I could start to rebuild mine. Making all the arrangements for him has brought back the hard tears. Why is life being so hard.
Elaine, email me at bchamberlain@wi.rr.com or if you are on Facebook I will find you. It is a beautiful story and the whole thing is posted on our Legacy site. Sending good thoughts to you and I look forward to hearing from you.
Hugs always,
Barb
Elaine, email me at bchamberlain@wi.rr.com or if you are on Facebook I will find you. It is a beautiful story and the whole thing is posted on our Legacy site. Sending good thoughts to you and I look forward to hearing from you.
Hugs always,
Barb
Dear Judy,
Well, I cannot say I have made much progress since yesterday, but did go to son's house for the 4th. and then to grandson and wife's house and watched the fireworks my great grand kids were enjoying, but my friend and her husband were there watching also and discreetly holding hands and it was like a knife in my heart. I woke up this morning crying which is a first and cannot seem to stop the tears this morning. As I mentioned before my husband's birthday will be in 3 days on the 8th. and I cannot even imagine what that day will hold for me. Take care and will be thinking of all of you.
Elaine, My husband and I were both born again Christians-well, I still am. Both accepted Christ as children and went to the same school and church since we were 9 & 10. We also watched Fox news and discussed politics, ect. every day. My husband also read a lot while I was reading as well as pursing art and making stained glass. I also can read religious books as well as grief books, not all of them but most. Now I keep the television on mute, but do keep it on and I can't read a bit of fiction, I read one page and put the book down. I do purchase them still because my girls read them and than return them so eventually I can read them. Keep me posted on your progress.
Hello Pam,
It will be 4 months on the 3rd. for me and his birthday was the 8th. I cannot bear to think about them. At this point all I can do is hang on, but oh, how I would love to let go and go Home. Troy was my life and it all seems so pointless now.
Will be thinking of you also. Elaine
Hi Elaine, it will also be 4 months on the 5th since my husband passed. Been crying all week just thinking about the holiday. Going on every day is hard but they are the hardest. Doesn't matter which holiday it is. No meaning without my Bob. Hang in there. My thought will be with you.
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Elaine, I just read your post and my heart stop beating. We had the same problem with a dr. prescribing my husband amiodaron and my husband had lung cancer to make a very long story short I threw this DR out of my husband's room and told the nurses NEVER to allow him back into the room. My husband experienced shortness of breath and chest pains he became severely ill & since I monitored everything I nailed his problem to that medication. Once he was off of the meds he returned back to his normal. The Dr and I had a yelling match and he was out. I am so sorry you too had to go through this. There are many Dr. I hate for what they did or did not do for my husband and I understand your bitterness. They keep their practice and we move on alone. I will keep you in my prayers.
Hugs, Jane
I'm having some better days. But yesterday my Stepfather passed away. Now my Mom is alone like me. We lost our husbands 5 months apart. I prayed every day that he would get better so my Mom could have her life back and maybe I could start to rebuild mine. Making all the arrangements for him has brought back the hard tears. Why is life being so hard.
I'm having some better days. But yesterday my Stepfather passed away. Now my Mom is alone like me. We lost our husbands 5 months apart. I prayed every day that he would get better so my Mom could have her life back and maybe I could start to rebuild mine. Making all the arrangements for him has brought back the hard tears. Why is life being so hard.
Hugs always,
Barb
Hugs always,
Barb
Well, I cannot say I have made much progress since yesterday, but did go to son's house for the 4th. and then to grandson and wife's house and watched the fireworks my great grand kids were enjoying, but my friend and her husband were there watching also and discreetly holding hands and it was like a knife in my heart. I woke up this morning crying which is a first and cannot seem to stop the tears this morning. As I mentioned before my husband's birthday will be in 3 days on the 8th. and I cannot even imagine what that day will hold for me. Take care and will be thinking of all of you.
It will be 4 months on the 3rd. for me and his birthday was the 8th. I cannot bear to think about them. At this point all I can do is hang on, but oh, how I would love to let go and go Home. Troy was my life and it all seems so pointless now.
Will be thinking of you also. Elaine