Fraya Vaughan
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Posted on April 23, 2011 at 1:22pm 0 Comments

Well the Easter Holiday is here. Holidays seem to be the hardest to get threw. A lot of people say i should be able to handle it Iam 48. But i dont think anyone ever really gets over the loss of a Father or Mother. This is the first Easter with out my Dad. I know he is in Heaven an i can talk to him anytime. But i miss hearing his voice. An Iam still haven a hard time dealing with not being able to go back for his Funeral. I love You Dad an miss you so much.

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At 4:07pm on April 23, 2011, Karen said…

Hi Fraya, thanks for sending me a friend request.  I think you'd have a VERY difficult time if you were in my shoes - my father's 96th birthday is Tomorrow!  April 24, yes, on Easter!  Although Dad's been gone since Nov of 09, I still can't believe he's really gone!  People tell me the same thing since my 92 y.o. mom's still here.  "You're strong"  or "you're stronger than you think"  I know they mean well, but it doesn't help, Fraya, you know?

 

I have a feeling we're both feeling pretty much the same emotions, although I took care of the funeral arrangements.  And attended the funeral.  Watched as they put his casket in the crypt, but don't remember leaving the funeral.  I remember being at my parents' house for some refreshments, oh well....Anyway, The people who say you should be able to handle it don't know what they're talking about - a loss is a loss!  And you're right, some people never "get over" the loss.

This will be my second Father's Day without my Father.

Try to take care of yourself, Fraya - you're in my thougts.

Karen

 

At 10:45am on February 26, 2011, Dawn Ciringione said…
I'm so sorry for your loss.  I cried to read that you couldn't get to the funeral.  I lost my dad about a yr and a half ago and miss him so.  I was so lucky to have had him as long as I did, and lucky to live close by.
At 10:45am on February 26, 2011, Dawn Ciringione said…
I'm so sorry for your loss.  I cried to read that you couldn't get to the funeral.  I lost my dad about a yr and a half ago and miss him so.  I was so lucky to have had him as long as I did, and lucky to live close by.
At 6:39pm on February 22, 2011, MyFathersSon said…
I also got you email... I lost my father Mar 14, 2010. Both my parents are gone now and the world really feels different.
At 3:23pm on February 22, 2011, Karen said…

Fraya, I saw your e-mail about losing your beloved Daddy but weren't able to attend his funeral.  I am so very sorry about that!  I lost my Dad in Nov 2009 & miss him terribly.  I want him back so much!  Keep in touch, ok?

 

Karen

 
 
 

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