You are welcome!!  I apologize for the delay.  This time of year so many are feeling down and you try to help as many as you can - helping others deal with their emotions - also helps me deal with my lost,

I  am so sorry for your loss.  I too lost my son.  He was 20 years old. I also have a website where parents can share stories of the connections or messages they have experienced from the child they lost.  It is a google at www.thechildwelost.com. God bless you and your family. 
Susan Casadei

Hello Gaynell,

My heart does go out to you.  Death is a very hard experience for all of us to handle and a very painful emotions for all of us to deal with.  One thing you do have is the memories of your love ones to treasure - knowing that they are resting in a better place.  Ecclesiastes 9:5.  

We can all can seek out comfort from the Bible and the hope that God has in store for all of our love ones in his memory.  (Romans 15:4).  (John 5:28,29).   God has promised us so much more then what we have come to  know of this life.  In Revelation 21:3,4 - he speaks of a time where death will be no more, nor mourning, nor outcry, nor pain be anymore --the former things have pass away." 

So, when we seek comfort from the Scriptures and know that it is the word of God - our God who can not lie (Titus 1:2)  we come to realize that shortly all painful things and events will be done away with that exist in this wicked system of things. 

So, take delight in knowing that you have a loving creator who is aware of your pain and will shortly bring an end to the needless suffering and pain that we encounter when our love one pass-away.  Do take care of yourself....and treasure all of the good memories of your dear-love ones.

Gaynell you are in my prayers, would you share a little about your boys to me? GOD BLESS YOU, Melissa