Thank you Sharon for being there and talking with me. It's so nice to have someone to share things with that knows what is and has gone on. My husband wasn't able to respond to us for a couple days before he died. I knew tho on Thanksgiving Day when I got up that morning that something was wrong. I felt him dying. His breathing was rapid for a few hours and then slowed down. I got into bed with him and stayed for a while and held him. I know he knew I was there. He passed at 1:25 that afternoon. He kept reaching up but never was able to speak or open his eyes. From the time that we found out about his cancer we prayed every morning and read the Word, scriptures on healing, and we also took communion everyday. It helped us both so much. My husband had visions during this time, I've written them all down. They are precious to me. I do believe he got his healing. Thank God he is no longer in pain, he is rejoicing and I know he's waiting on me and our family. Be blessed today.
Hello Gloria,nice to hear from you and thank you for the uplift, I really mean it. My husband too died at home and if I hadnt have witnessed his passing I dont know if I would be as good as I am today. I tell everyone that if I know nothing else in this life I know for a fact that there is a heaven because I watched my husband go there, he kept saying I need to go up, then he said hi Mom and I knew and a sence of peace came over me, it was very moving. Thank you also for the scripture, I find great peace in reading the bible and in my church
Hi Gloria, my name is Sharon and I too lost my husband to lung cancer. I still have my husbands clothes and things as well. I see no need to get rid of them any time soon. Carl died in April, seems like yesterday to me. Some days I do good then other days, well you know. I do find that going to church has helped me a great deal. I find a peace there that I can not find anywhere else and I feel the presents of my husband there if that makes and sence to anyone but me. Hang in there
gloria, thats what I am doing as well, we have to.
I am so sorry for your loss. I'm hear and I will talk and I will listen. I know how much it hurts. It's been 11 years for me, and it does get better, and life does go on. Much has changed in my life, and I have moved on............but there isn't a single day that he isn't with me. That I don't think of him. How could he not be, he was father to my children. My best friend for 23 years. My intention was to may daily entries to my blog, to detail for everyone, my journey from when I lost him and all my thoughts and feelings to where I am today. Time contraints with work, is slowing my process. My I will share all the details, good, bad, and the mistakes I've made along the way. I guess if I have a mantra, that I share is: God puts us where we are for a reason. We may not know why or understand, but it does all become clear in time. Hang in there. I'm here for you please keep writing and I'll keep listening and answering. Graceann