Cheers to you and I think I will join you both in a heep of my dearest brothers year old dirty clothes that mom and I have a death grip on...your a doll your comment to Melanie helped me too!
Here is to the crazed…"
"Melanie, Hold on to them until your ready, it has been a year for mom and I too since we lost my brother to suicide, our SOS group leader said that you take as much time as you need too. Nothing you do is weird, be good to yourself.
"God Bless us All, especially to the the child's family lost to suicide. Please let us know if the schools does something about this for the kids. Bullying should be NOT TOLERATED!!! It should be illegal!!!!
I lost my only…"
"You are all the best parts of your mom...don't every forget it!!!I look into my daughters eyes and think, they are the best of me and their dads. Love never ends it is eternal...
Bless you and yours sweetheart
"Thank you Heather. I thnk it does help when I know there are other people who are dealing with the same situation. I think It would have been easier if she had died from some desease or something. It's just the suicide that…"
"A really sweet lady posted this for me on another website and I thought I could share.
Jar of Stones: If you filled a quart jar with small stones, and held it straight out in front of you, you would find that with each passing moment the jar would…"
I am so sorry and I am in the same storm, I lost my brother to suicide by hanging on December 8, 2010. I wanted to tell you that your not alone...we just have to learn to except a really shitty assignment, life as we knew it...…"
How appropriate that Easter bring you some relief. Bless you and yours.
I have been suffering so much too, I just ache for second chances, to live my life differently, so have know somehow that the last time I saw Brent…"
God Bless you and yours, its only been four months for me and I haven't been able to come to any sort of grips with this.
Your a good writer, your not rambling...don't give up, even if you just vent here you getting…"
Thank you Heather. I thnk it does help when I know there are other people who are dealing with the same situation. I think It would have been easier if she had died from some desease or something. It's just the suicide that hurts so much. It was weeks before I could even say "she took her own life". I still can't relate the word suicide to her death. The police chief that investitgated it was so cruel. He said "your daughter killed herself, deal with it". Some of her best friends and myself and my other dauther, and even my husband who is a retired police officer, feel she may not hve done this alone. And that is the answer I got frm the local police department.
I lost my husband 9 months ago today, it also happened to be our wedding day. I have been to 2 psychiatric hospitals, counselors, therapists, psychiatrists and the pain is still there. There are 5 stages to grief:
I can not get past the anger part. It is very hard for me to be angry at him. Everyone says I should be, but I loved him so much, it is like he took my heart with him. I will be thinking of you. Hope this helps a little bit...
I am so sorry heather my son was killed on novmer 19th and my youngest daughter is taking it so hard. Talk to your friends let them help don't try to be strong for your parents they can take it we want to help our daughter so much but she claims up on us when we try to talk to her, the whole family is grieving and right now you all need to grab on to each other for comfort any way you can