Heather J. Crawford-Strout
  • Female
  • Chesapeake, VA
  • United States
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Heather J. Crawford-Strout and Jared Cunningham are now friends
Nov 14, 2011
Heather J. Crawford-Strout replied to Melanie's discussion Loved ones belongings in the group suicide's survivors
"Dearest Jared,   Cheers to you and I think I will join you both in a heep of my dearest brothers year old dirty clothes that mom and I have a death grip on...your a doll your comment to Melanie helped me too!   Here is to the crazed…"
Nov 7, 2011
Heather J. Crawford-Strout replied to Melanie's discussion Loved ones belongings in the group suicide's survivors
"Melanie, Hold on to them until your ready, it has been a year for mom and I too since we lost my brother to suicide, our SOS group leader said that you take as much time as you need too. Nothing you do is weird, be good to yourself.   My best…"
Nov 7, 2011
Heather J. Crawford-Strout and Melissa Minotti-Kloepfer are now friends
Oct 17, 2011
Heather J. Crawford-Strout commented on Jacqueline Rowles's blog post Death
"God Bless us All, especially to the the child's family lost to suicide.  Please let us know if the schools does something about this for the kids.  Bullying should be NOT TOLERATED!!! It should be illegal!!!!   I lost my only…"
Sep 28, 2011
Heather J. Crawford-Strout left a comment for michelle foster
"You are all the best parts of your mom...don't every forget it!!!I look into my daughters eyes and think, they are the best of me and their dads.  Love never ends it is eternal... Bless you and yours sweetheart (((hugs))))"
Sep 28, 2011
Karen Campbell left a comment for Heather J. Crawford-Strout
"Thank you Heather.  I thnk it does help when I know there are other people who are dealing with the same situation.  I think It would have been easier if she had died from some desease or something.  It's just the suicide that…"
Sep 23, 2011
Heather J. Crawford-Strout left a comment for Karen Campbell
"Peace I pray for you, I am so sorry for your loss and I wanted to send you a cyber (((hug)))"
Sep 22, 2011
Heather J. Crawford-Strout replied to E's discussion I lost my brother. in the group suicide's survivors
"A really sweet lady posted this for me on another website and I thought I could share. Jar of Stones: If you filled a quart jar with small stones, and held it straight out in front of you, you would find that with each passing moment the jar would…"
Aug 7, 2011
Heather J. Crawford-Strout posted a status
"Brent and I were on a plane to go home August 10 2010 and be with my family in Montana...last August he was alive..and now he isn't."
Aug 2, 2011
Heather J. Crawford-Strout replied to E's discussion I lost my brother. in the group suicide's survivors
"Eddie,   I am so sorry and I am in the same storm, I lost my brother to suicide by hanging on December 8, 2010.  I wanted to tell you that your not alone...we just have to learn to except a really shitty assignment, life as we knew it...…"
Aug 2, 2011
Heather J. Crawford-Strout updated their profile
Apr 27, 2011
Heather J. Crawford-Strout updated their profile photo
Apr 27, 2011
Heather J. Crawford-Strout replied to Eduardo Issac Rodriguez's discussion Life, Unexpected in the group suicide's survivors
"Eduardo,   How appropriate that Easter bring you some relief.  Bless you and yours.   I have been suffering so much too, I just ache for second chances, to live my life differently, so have know somehow that the last time I saw Brent…"
Apr 27, 2011
Camille Patton and Heather J. Crawford-Strout are now friends
Apr 13, 2011
Heather J. Crawford-Strout replied to Eduardo Issac Rodriguez's discussion Life, Unexpected in the group suicide's survivors
"Eduardo,   God Bless you and yours, its only been four months for me and I haven't been able to come to any sort of grips with this.   Your a good writer, your not rambling...don't give up, even if you just vent here you getting…"
Apr 13, 2011

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At 8:52am on September 23, 2011, Karen Campbell said…
Thank you Heather.  I thnk it does help when I know there are other people who are dealing with the same situation.  I think It would have been easier if she had died from some desease or something.  It's just the suicide that hurts so much.  It was weeks before I could even say "she took her own life".  I still can't relate the word suicide to her death.  The police chief that investitgated it was so cruel.  He said "your daughter killed herself, deal with it".  Some of her best friends and myself and my other dauther, and even my husband who is a retired police officer, feel she may not hve done this alone.  And that is the answer I got frm the local police department.
At 4:21pm on April 11, 2011, Camille Patton said…

Heather,

Thank you for your kind words.  The poem was beautiful. My heart goes out to you

At 12:09pm on January 11, 2011, Brenda Jean Friddle said…

Heather,

I lost my husband 9 months ago today, it also happened to be our wedding day. I have been to 2 psychiatric hospitals, counselors, therapists, psychiatrists and the pain is still there. There are 5 stages to grief:

I can not get past the anger part. It is very hard for me to be angry at him. Everyone says I should be, but I loved him so much, it is like he took my heart with him. I will be thinking of you. Hope this helps a little bit...

At 5:59pm on January 9, 2011, Terri Kuta said…

I am so sorry heather my son was killed on novmer 19th and my youngest daughter is taking it so hard.  Talk to your friends let them help don't try to be strong for your parents they can take it we want to help our daughter so much but she claims up on us when we try to talk to her, the whole family is grieving and right now you all need to grab on to each other for comfort any way you can

 

Terri

 
 
 

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