Please accept my sincere condolences concerning your son. You may want to post your feelings on the community board for loss of a child. Someone can respond and hopefully give you some words of understanding and comfort. I don't exactly when I came here but have never totally left. My only child Joe was taken by a drunk driver coming up on 6 years ago this April 2016. I sometimes leave posts in hopes that someone can get something from it as to how I've coped with this issue. It's definitely changed my life and I think of Joe every day. Just know that it's normal to cry, scream as frequent as a person needs to do. I go over the mountain, around it, through it, under it but it's always there. Without any warning I'm crying a river. It's all normal. I continued to do what I did before my world really came tumbling down on my head. But often I'm just hanging around the house in PJ's and watching TV. We need days of self-care as our priority in this life. I give myself permission to let things go in my house to do other things that I want to do. Please feel comfortable to post on Tami's site. She is a wonderful person who understands as all of us are in the same boat. Helen, If you just want to respond to me click on my name just above this post as I did to find you! Sincerely, Barbara
Oh Helen, I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved son... If you ever need to talk personally, my email address is firstname.lastname@example.org, I am always here for you. I am admin. Of the site loss of a child.