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Jan 16, 2013
Carinda Mickelsen replied to Jacky's discussion Overwhelmed n Sinking! in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Jacky - I'm in month 7 as well. My husband Joe passed away on his birthday, April 14th of this year. He was 63. I'm 49 and we were married for 27 years. He had kidney cancer and they removed one kidney about 3 years ago. By the time they…"
Nov 20, 2012
Beatriz replied to Jacky's discussion Overwhelmed n Sinking! in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Jacky i am sorry for your loss, I lost my husband 5 months ago, it has been very sad he was everything for me, now the hollydays are coming and I am terrified to face it. I really don't know what to do, like many people say one step at the…"
Nov 16, 2012
Marsha H replied to Jacky's discussion Overwhelmed n Sinking! in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Jackie ... My condolences on the loss of your husband.  My husband passed away at age 65 on April 27, 2011 and I know how you feel as all of us do on this forum.  The first year I cried so hard I could hardly get off the sofa; didn't…"
Nov 15, 2012
Frank Andrews replied to Jacky's discussion Overwhelmed n Sinking! in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Jacky, I need all the prayers you can send to get me through this unbearable time. I feel guilty because I did not do more to save her life from doctors who did more harm than good in order to inflate hospital bills. She passed from an infection she…"
Nov 13, 2012
Jacky replied to cindy j cox's discussion WHEN WILL I QUIT CRYING in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Cindy, I too am sorry for your loss! I choose to say, the day The Lord came for my husband, or the day my husband went home to Heaven, as opposed to saying passed or died. I refuse to say that, because his Spirit is very much alive with Jesus,…"
Nov 13, 2012
Jacky replied to Jacky's discussion Overwhelmed n Sinking! in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Amen Vicki! Lord Bless you! Wow, four years...bet that time went really fast. I still find it unbelievable. Still doesn't seem real. When I pray, I ask Father to take the lonliness from my heart. Because in The Bible, it teaches us to ask, and…"
Nov 8, 2012
vickie replied to Jacky's discussion Overwhelmed n Sinking! in the group Bereaved Spouses
"I know the pain you are going though it is hard and lonely   and the crying  and hurt  yes i have to agree the lonliness is the worst i keep trying to be strong when im with others but when i come home to that empty house im…"
Nov 7, 2012
Jacky replied to Jacky's discussion Overwhelmed n Sinking! in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Frank, Lord Bless you! I am sorry for your loss! Sounds like you and your wife had shared a very special marriage. And coming from a woman's standpoint here, I believe she knew all those regrets you mention you wish you could have told her!…"
Nov 3, 2012
Frank Andrews replied to Jacky's discussion Overwhelmed n Sinking! in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Jacky and Paula,   I also have almost the same feelings and emotions you described and that is why this forum is good because we can share and know that we are not alone in our grief and that we are not crazy for our intense emotions.…"
Nov 2, 2012
Jacky replied to Jacky's discussion Overwhelmed n Sinking! in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Paula! Wonderful to hear from you! I am 48! My husband was 17 years older. He has 2 daughters from a previous marriage, that astranged themselves from him over 12 years ago. And just came back, after I contacted them, 2 days prior to his…"
Nov 2, 2012
paula ratcliff replied to Jacky's discussion Overwhelmed n Sinking! in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Jacky, I got cold chills when you said your love passed on the 18th as well. Yes there is def a bond. Maybe God sent me to this forum for a reason. But look at you, in your time of grief, reaching out to comfort another. Thank you for that. I do…"
Nov 2, 2012
Jacky replied to Jacky's discussion Overwhelmed n Sinking! in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Goofy computer....wanted to add, Lord Bless you dear heart! Let's chat soon!"
Nov 2, 2012
Jacky replied to Jacky's discussion Overwhelmed n Sinking! in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Oh Dear Sweet Paula, I am so very sorry! How devastating! I will Pray for you! My husband went to be with The Lord on 04/18/12. So on 11/18, it will be 7 months! I am soooo sorry, we as strangers, share this intense close bond! We were married just…"
Nov 2, 2012
paula ratcliff replied to Jacky's discussion Overwhelmed n Sinking! in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Wow! As I was reading this I felt as though you took the words right out of my mouth. My name is Paula and I was married to my soulmate Jesse for 30 beautiful years, since the age of 17. On 6/18/12 after a family argument, my cousin who was also…"
Nov 1, 2012
Jacky added a discussion to the group Bereaved Spouses
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Overwhelmed n Sinking!

Another start of a new month! Still feels like I got sucker punched in the gut! I hurt soooo very deeply! I am Praying unceasingly! I am trying to submit to God's will here, but this is tough! It is going on 7 months. The lonliness has to be the worst! I try to stay in Prayer for peace, or keep my mind active, but am sinking faster than I know how to deal with it! No children, young, have heard more times than I can count, and hurl....your sooo young n pretty, you'll marry again! Seriously?.?…See More
Nov 1, 2012

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At 8:09pm on June 13, 2012, janice shannon said…

Dear Jacky, Hope that this evening is finding you  feeling better as far as your broncistis goes.  I have been working very hard on adjusting to my new life.  You know none of us wanted to have a life apart from our spouse, but when our time is up here on earth it is just up. Yesterday my husbands ashes arrived at my son's home where I now live.  Everyone said it was too dangerous for me to stay where I was so I had to leave my job, my little home, and allot of my stuff to move.  I have been working on planning a memorial service for my husband.  Mostly I have nothing to do so I just sit and think allot too.  I miss my husband allot but when I think about how bravely he faced his own death, i just have to be strong to honor that memory.  But I check this website everyday so if you want to post something i will respond if I catch it.  Remember we are never alone, God is just a prayer away.  You try to get a good nights sleep.  My prayers will be with you. Janice

 
 
 

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