James Shults
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  • Mission, TX
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James Shults replied to James Shults's discussion It has been 5 years in the group LOSS OF A SIBLING SUPPORT GROUP
"Thank you!"
Feb 7
Maxine Hall replied to James Shults's discussion It has been 5 years in the group LOSS OF A SIBLING SUPPORT GROUP
"Sorry for your lost. Hold onto the good memories, the laughter, the good conversations about school and life. Remember the gift he was to you and your family. Know that while he's asleep in death, his voice will always be heard because I'm…"
Feb 7
James Shults replied to James Shults's discussion It has been 5 years in the group LOSS OF A SIBLING SUPPORT GROUP
"Thank you Jennifer!"
Jan 31
Melinda CANDACE Guinn replied to James Shults's discussion It has been 5 years in the group LOSS OF A SIBLING SUPPORT GROUP
"Trust in God. I feel responsible for three deaths. 1) My Grandma who had a stroke while at church praying for me. 2) My only child, grown, who asked me to move w/her but my roommate said I couldn't come back so I didn't go and she…"
Jan 30
Jennifer replied to James Shults's discussion It has been 5 years in the group LOSS OF A SIBLING SUPPORT GROUP
"Hi  James, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Im so glad you have this support group to write down whats happening for you. Although its not in person I think writing is very therapeutic.  I was looking through the comments and I also…"
Jan 24
James Shults posted a status
"Talked to my son tonight about some of the things I have been going through. It is a big breakthrough for me."
Jan 22
James Shults replied to elyse's discussion My mind is unsettled in the group LOSS OF A SIBLING SUPPORT GROUP
"The questions I have can't be answered by a doctor. I know the physical reason why he died."
Jan 22
James Shults replied to elyse's discussion My mind is unsettled in the group LOSS OF A SIBLING SUPPORT GROUP
"I can relate to this.  I have so many questions.  For a long time after my brother died I would describe myself as confused.  I still have many questions but I guess I have come to grips with the fact that many of them will never be…"
Jan 22
James Shults left a comment for elyse
"Thank you Elyse"
Jan 22
elyse left a comment for James Shults
"James,Sorry to hear about your siblings.You have come to the right place here on Legacy.Our losses may be different,but our feelings are similar.It is true what you say about wanting closure,which for me is the reason.My brother,only sibling drowned…"
Jan 21
James Shults posted a status
"I have had a really good week. I've only been here for a few days but the response has been awesome. Thank you!"
Jan 19
Tony Matera left a comment for James Shults
"Thankyou James for you kind words, am sorry about your brother, it is so amazing to know that no matter where we are in the world we can support each other during these times. My partner was the ultimate optimist who engaged life in so many ways, am…"
Jan 18
Mindy replied to James Shults's discussion It has been 5 years in the group LOSS OF A SIBLING SUPPORT GROUP
"Hi James, Please know that you are not alone. I lost my little brother at the age of 17 and I was blamed for his death. It was my idea to take my family hiking and he fell on the hiking trail and hit his head. My relatives would come and ask me why…"
Jan 18
James Shults replied to James Shults's discussion It has been 5 years in the group LOSS OF A SIBLING SUPPORT GROUP
"Thank you Karen.  I do appreciate everyone that is willing to share their experience.  One of the reasons I joined was because I knew that there had to be others that had similar experiences to mine. "
Jan 18
James Shults replied to James Shults's discussion It has been 5 years in the group LOSS OF A SIBLING SUPPORT GROUP
"Thank you Shannon.  I appreciate your insight and I agree with much of what you have said especially what you said about valuing people more.  I definitely do not take the time I have with anyone for granted. "
Jan 18
Karen Liller replied to James Shults's discussion It has been 5 years in the group LOSS OF A SIBLING SUPPORT GROUP
"Hi James: I really believe I know how you feel. I lost my beautiful younger sister Lisa when she only 49 years old to neuroendocrine cancer. She was a beautiful person, inside and out. She was a loving mother, wife, sister, and my best friend. She…"
Jan 18

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Posted on January 16, 2017 at 11:12am 0 Comments

My name is James but most people call me Tommy.  I am the oldest son of 4 brothers.  But my story starts with the fact that there are only two of us left.  18 years ago my first brother died in a car accident. I got a call near midnight from another brother telling me that he had died. He was only a year younger than me.  Of course his death was hard but in many ways it drew our family closer together.  In some ways I felt like I had closure with him.  Fast forward to 2011. I got another…

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At 12:15am on January 21, 2017, elyse said…
James,Sorry to hear about your siblings.You have come to the right place here on Legacy.Our losses may be different,but our feelings are similar.It is true what you say about wanting closure,which for me is the reason.My brother,only sibling drowned in 2014 and my thoughts are in question,I have questions but no answers.I hope you find the support you are seeking here as we all are.elyse
At 11:05pm on January 18, 2017, Tony Matera said…
Thankyou James for you kind words, am sorry about your brother, it is so amazing to know that no matter where we are in the world we can support each other during these times. My partner was the ultimate optimist who engaged life in so many ways, am holding onto each story that comes out from his friends, colleagues and family, although young he had a life full and memorable, l just miss his presence so much, my life was so full, there was never enough time, now there seems nothing but time, it is so quiet. Nearly three weks down and we scatter part of his ashes this weekend. Sunny Melbourne, his ashes out to sea where is father fished many years ago, hope they are together now and this scattering will begin a new chapter in his journey ... Cheers, Tony
 
 
 

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